First, cultivate children's self-control ability. We can use some activities to cultivate children's self-control ability. For example, when a child wants to play, we ask him to finish his homework first. At this time, parents can give their children some rewards. For example, promise him to watch cartoons or give children what they want. But only if you finish your homework. In this process, children gradually learned to control their playful thoughts. Parents should be good at using this feedback mechanism. When choosing a reward, you should consider your child's characteristics and don't use some money as a reward.
Second, enhance children's self-discipline. When children are studying, we can help them make a timetable and ask them to be self-disciplined, such as another reasonable play plan. In this plan, there is time to play and do homework every day. If possible, be as detailed as possible, so that children can have fun and study hard while playing. At the same time, parents should be self-disciplined and let their children follow their parents' example.
Third, help children overcome temptation. I believe everyone knows what they want. The temptation is so strong that many adults can't control it, let alone some younger children. We can often play some parent-child games with our children and set up some temptation links in these games. Step by step, guide children how to resist temptation and restrain their inner impulses. Through such games, children can improve their self-control