Personally, I think it is very important to change parents, because every generation will have great changes. The times are progressing, children are more avant-garde and their parents are relatively backward.

The benefits of parental change are as follows:

First, changing parents is to optimize the environment in which children grow up.

Parents are the people whose children have the earliest contact and the longest contact time, so they are the people whose children are most affected. Parents' values and behavior habits have direct and indirect influence on children. The biggest role of family education is to influence and edify. Parents' words and deeds will be fixed on their children's personalized tapes and automatically played for a lifetime. Tutoring is an education that goes deep into the bone marrow, lays a solid foundation for children's life and is the top priority of all education. Parents' change and improvement are equal to improvement. Optimizing the growth environment of children's family education and improving the soft power of family education are the most basic guarantee for children's healthy growth.

Second, we can't change anyone but ourselves.

In order to change children, we must first change their parents. No one is willing to accept the changes imposed on them by others, especially children. If you want to change the world around you, such as your children, your lover, your interpersonal relationship and so on, you must change your inner world. Fortunately, your inner world and inner life are exactly under your control. Smart parents are not imposing their will on their children, but are more willing to influence, edify, infect and influence their children with their knowledge, education, wisdom and virtue.

Third, the best way for children to identify with their parents is to improve themselves.

The child is born by his parents and raised by them, but he won't agree with his parents because of this. In other words, children have no obligation to identify with their parents. Only when parents behave well and children believe this, will they accept their parents' advice and guidance. The change and progress of parents is the only way for children to accept themselves and identify with themselves.

Fourth, it is useless to give medicine to children who are sick around their parents.

Many facts show that all children's problems are caused by their parents. The root of the disease lies in parents, and simply giving children medicine can't solve the problem. It is a panacea for cultivating excellent children for parents to change their ideas, improve their quality and set an example.

Only the adjusted parents can adjust their children.

Objectively speaking, children who are tired of learning and addicted to the internet should bear certain responsibilities. However, minors have limited experience and low psychological quality, so they can't understand themselves, sort out their inner entanglements, resolve their inner knots, resist all kinds of temptations, and clearly adjust and change themselves. Parents are children's life mentors and the objects that children imitate. They must adjust their children by adjusting their parents and change their children by changing their parents.

An important training for good parents is that they can not only understand their children's voices, but also help them understand themselves and illuminate their children with their inner energy. children