The double reduction does reduce the children's heavy academic burden, but it also increases the space for parents to play. No matter how education is reformed, parents are the first responsible person for children's education.
Parents who learn to bully are usually very attentive in the following eight aspects:
0 1, parents know how to get along with their parents, and a good parent-child relationship is the foundation of all education. In the case of private family education, many children play the devil's advocate and don't study. The root cause is poor parent-child relationship. It is the way parents talk and get along with each other that destroys the parent-child relationship step by step, so that what children want to do most is to "oppose their parents." It is difficult for these children to receive the education given by their parents. There are no exceptions, but most schoolmasters have a harmonious relationship with their parents.
02, parents give high-quality companionship and pamper their children in the right way. Educator charlotte mason said, "Many parents are always busy all day and never have time to take care of their children. When they finally want to take good care of their children one day, they find that they can't communicate with their children, and parents have become insignificant to their children. " These parents not only spend time with their children, but also have a high quality of companionship. High-quality company is the best gift for children. In high-quality companionship, children are no longer lonely and helpless, and parents can also understand their hearts, lead their children to grow up healthily, sincerely accept and appreciate their children, give them a full sense of security and positive energy, and make them study more easily and peacefully.
03. Parents carefully supervise their children's study and give them strong help. The child is unconscious. Any self-disciplined child must be the result of parents' correct guidance and strict discipline. It is unrealistic for parents to expect their children to learn to be conscious. When children were young, these parents kept urging them to at least study hard. Those children who love learning and self-discipline rely on their parents' supervision and persistence, and their parents' methods are proper and their children are more cooperative.
Parents pay attention to the cultivation of children's habits. These parents cultivate their children's habit of reading when they are very young. In addition, they will give guidance and strict requirements for children's study habits, living habits and behavior habits. In particular, the study habits of focusing on class and reviewing in place after class have been attached importance to and cultivated since primary school, which will continue to be of great help to children's follow-up study. We have never slacked off in children's work and rest and self-care. The habit of self-discipline developed by children since childhood has played a great positive role in children's learning and is also the wealth of children's life.
Parents attach importance to their children's all-round development. Many scholars usually not only study well, but also have outstanding interests. This is basically because their parents attach importance to the all-round development of their children. Parents attach importance to moral education and physical education to protect their children's physical and mental health; We also attach importance to art education to improve children's imagination and creativity. Good parent-child communication, children will not have great pressure, but real love. Such a child, life will not be boring, can work and rest, full of confidence.
Parents Help Children Establish Rules Professor Li Meijin said: "Parents must say what they should say when their children are young and establish rules when they should say it." There is a saying in Courage of Discipline: "The luckiest thing in raising a child is to give him a needle when he was a child and put wings on him when he grows up." Teach children to obey the rules, fear the rules, and let them know what to do and what not to do. So as to pay more attention to study, abide by the rules and regulations of the school, and study will be smoother.
07. Parents are good at sowing ideals for their children. The theme of the first lesson in school is "Ideal Illuminates the Future", which shows the importance of ideal to education. Under the guidance of their parents, these children all have ideals and pursuits. Under the guidance of ideals, no matter what difficulties and setbacks you encounter, you can stick to it. The great writer lev tolstoy said, "Ideal is the guiding light. Without ideals, there is no firm direction; Without direction, there is no life. " When children are still young, parents consciously cultivate their children to set up ideals, firm goals, and be a person with dreams, responsibilities and usefulness to the motherland. Such a child, with a vision for a better future, is full of motivation for life. Learning is naturally more willing to work hard and seriously.
Parents cooperate and support teachers' work. Many schoolmasters' studies are jointly promoted by their families and schools. Parents and teachers often communicate, cooperate with the school's work, and learn more about their children's situation at school. When necessary, they cooperate with teachers to form a joint force to help children grow up quietly. Home-school cooperation is the key to the success of education. Parents believe in the professionalism of teachers, keep good communication with teachers, don't talk about teachers in front of children, and respect teachers. Such children are also more willing to listen to the teacher's teaching, so as to learn better. Learn to be a wise parent, let children be excellent from childhood, and let Excellence become a habit. We can't be perfect parents, but we will try our best.