Many women like Faye Wong, not only because of her songs, but also because of her personality. Faye Wong is very independent and free and easy, especially in terms of feelings, which sets a good example for many people. Her attitude towards feelings is straightforward, and she doesn't drag her feet. After breaking up, she didn't say much and didn't look back.
In fact, Faye Wong has his own unique views on educating children, and he gets along well with his two daughters, often sisters.
Speaking of Faye Wong's two daughters, Leah Dou and Li Yan, I can't help wondering why Li Yan gave up when I applied for custody of Leah Dou when Dou Wei and I divorced.
It's actually quite simple. Faye Wong thinks that Dou Wei can't raise children well. In addition, Faye Wong and Dou Wei broke up because Dou Wei cheated in marriage, so she had to raise Leah Dou. Li is a good father. Their divorce is not because of the infidelity of marriage, but because some lifestyles and viewpoints of the two people collide and cannot be integrated, but this does not deny that Li is a good father.
Today, it seems that Faye Wong is far-sighted.
If there are emotional problems, should we maintain marriage for our children?
Now people's ideas are more and more advanced, especially women's ideas have changed a lot. For women, marriage is a lifetime, even if they submit to humiliation in Lacrimosa. Now that women have an independent social status and occupy half the sky in the workplace, they will no longer rely on men to live.
However, there are still some mothers who hesitate when they encounter problems in their marriage life. They don't know whether they should stay married for their children.
Many parents will choose to maintain their marriage relationship for their children and play the role of a good parent in front of them, but from the child's point of view, it will make their children more injured.
Personally, I don't support this method for the following reasons:
1, children nowadays are very smart.
Today's children are very smart. They can tell at a glance whether their parents have problems. Parents don't agree, they still have to act in front of him, but they turn their heads and are indifferent. It hurts the child. He feels cheated.
Today's children are very strong.
Instead of deceiving children all the time and waiting for them to grow up before parting, it is better to tell them a showdown at the beginning, let them know what happened, communicate with them and let them understand their parents' difficulties.
Take Faye Wong's two children as an example. They are excellent. They live happily, don't they?
If you can't play all the time, it's better to show your cards in advance.
Parents often say that for the sake of their children, they always play loving couples, but won't the children be sad when they grow up and their parents are separated again? Of course not. Of course, children want their families to reunite and their parents will always be with them. But if parents' feelings are gone, they will suffer from each other until their children reach adulthood, and they will be separated, which will still do the same harm to their children.
Some people say that it is only to gain opportunities for children's growth, but when parents act, children have been hurt and children know everything in their hearts.
Problems in marriage can be solved first.
Compared with problem families, the lack of single-parent families is very unfortunate. In a family with problems, the tone of the family is low pressure, which is not conducive to the growth of children. Instead of deceiving yourself, it is better to show your cards and let your children understand their parents.
Of course, if one of the parents makes a mistake, it will also hurt the child to some extent. If two people are separated only because of the three views, it is easy for children to accept.
Everything is not static. Nowadays, children live in this society and their mentality has changed a lot. Of course, it is best for children if parents can love each other as before, but if parents don't love each other, there is really no need to continue acting.