How does a class teacher communicate with different types of parents? Spoil? Parents should re-persuade.
? Spoil? Parents often overindulge their children, fail to see their shortcomings and even protect them. Short? .
Xiao Xin's grades are average, his family is well-off, and his parents are in business. One day, when I was in a self-study class, sweet music suddenly sounded. It turned out that he secretly brought his mobile phone to school. To this end, I had a long and sincere conversation with him. I encouraged him and tried to get him out of the virtual QQ chat world. When talking to me, he repeatedly promised that he would never do this again, but a few days later, he found that he had brought his mobile phone to school again.
After several contacts with his parents, I found that his parents repeatedly stressed to me: Xiao Xin is fine at home and doesn't let us worry at ordinary times. She never gets along? Bad students? Play together and never go to Internet cafes. The only requirement is to have a mobile phone, and of course we will satisfy him. Although his grades are average, we are very satisfied. So, I targeted them? Defend yourself for your mistakes? The characteristics of' changed the way of communication. At the beginning of the conversation, I fully affirmed the advantages of Xiao Xin, guided them to understand their children's shortcomings, talked to them about their expectations of their children, and then guided them to pay attention to Xiao Xin's education. I collected some cases of students indulging in mobile phone and QQ chat, and analyzed them together to guide them to see its harm. After several times, my parents began to actively cooperate with my work.
2. Is that right? Beat and scold? Parents should pay attention to suggestions.
? Beat and scold? Parents are mostly absent? Hate iron and not produce? Psychologically, I don't understand educational methods.
Fan Xiao has excellent grades and good family conditions. His father is impatient and strict with him. My classmates told me that Fan Xiao is always impulsive at ordinary times, so long as there is a little contradiction, he will use it. Force? Solve. On one occasion, Fan Xiao and Xiao Jie had an argument, and they wrestled together. Fan Xiao is very strong, put Xiao Jie on his body and hit Xiao Jie on the forehead with his fist. Later, Fan Xiao's father got a call from me and rushed to school. As soon as he entered the office, he shouted angrily. what are you going to do？ Kill a classmate? You disappointing child, raise your hand and hit Fan Xiao. I quickly stopped him, invited him to an empty office next to me, asked him to sit down and poured him a glass of water. Tell him some cases of negative educational effects brought by rude educational methods, and analyze the subtle influence of his behavior on children. After that, I often send him some correct educational methods by SMS. Slowly, Fan Xiao has changed. Even if there is a small conflict, he can take the initiative to take a step back.
3. Right? Give up? Parents should emphasize encouragement.
? Give up? Parents are often heartbroken about their children's achievements in primary school and lose confidence in their children.
Xiao Qi, the first exam to enter junior high school is general practice? Red lanterns? . Later, I learned that in primary school, his grades were not good. The first time I communicated with his mother, the first thing she said was:? Teacher, I know that the child's grades are poor, which has caused you trouble. I told her that children can't be measured by their grades, and that every child has his bright spots. I also told her that this semester, Xiao Qi served as the labor committee member of the class, because he always picked up garbage in the classroom and worked actively. I gradually let parents see their children's advantages, their progress and their hopes. Although you mention your child's shortcomings to your parents, don't say too much at once to avoid saying it? Children are stupid? Something like that Gradually, my parents have confidence in Xiao Qi, and they communicate with me actively from time to time to cooperate with my work.
4. Is that right? Matching type? Parents need to reconnect.
? Matching type? Parents are usually more concerned about their children and more reasonable.
Xiao Lin, with excellent grades, has been a monitor for many years. She is a very capable class cadre, helping the teacher to manage the class in order, and at the same time, she is trying to learn her lessons. Parents are proud of her and pay close attention to her thoughts. Always take the initiative to communicate with me
For her parents, I always report the situation of Xiaolin to them truthfully, and take the initiative to ask them to put forward educational measures and handling opinions first, and listen carefully. Because they attach great importance to children's education, observing children's performance is often more in-depth, detailed and specific than me, so I listen to their suggestions with an open mind. Of course, while listening, I will calmly analyze, and Xiao Lin's understanding is getting better and better.
5. Right? Question type? Parents should smile again.
? Question type? When parents come, they are usually aggressive and accuse the teacher of being wrong.
Xiaojun, introverted, usually quiet, is always bullied by some naughty classmates in the class. This time, his father came into my office angrily and said, Teacher, how do you manage your students? Our little army doesn't make trouble. Did you notice his hand? I was beaten black and blue by my classmates. Hearing this, I feel wronged for myself. I usually spend a lot of time educating students to live in peace, but the effect is minimal.
But he's angry, and I can't stand it? Work hard? Right? Work hard? . So I restrained my anger and said with a smile: Don't be angry. Come and sit down and have a glass of water. ? You know, in interpersonal communication, the charm of a smile is endless. It is like a huge magnet attracting iron, which people can't refuse. I won the favor of my parents at once. His tone softened and he said, Teacher, I know it's not easy for you either. However, it is not good for our children to always be bullied. ? Next, our communication will be much smoother.
Open an iron box, rather than smash it flat with one punch, it is better to find the key with the right number carefully. We should adopt different methods to communicate with different types of parents. As long as the teacher fully shows his love, patience and sense of responsibility to the students, so that parents can feel that you really care and care for the children, and everything you do is for the sake of the children, you will certainly get the understanding, support and cooperation of parents.