1, stay calm, don't scold the child, or even hit him, because I guess you didn't hit him when you were a child, or you rarely hit him. At this time, the time for you to hit him has passed, which means that you missed the opportunity to educate your children with "hitting". On this issue, I think it is also necessary for a child to "hit" properly when he is young. If he makes a serious mistake, it's all wet. At present, when the child scolds you again, don't scold him. Wait for him to calm down and reason with him calmly.

2. Educate yourself or ask relatives to educate your children. To be clear: parents work hard, parents love you, and parents also need the love, care and understanding of others. Need more education.

3. Ask children for advice when they do things. If the child doesn't want to do it, ask him how. If he does what he says and succeeds, he will be very happy and feel that his parents value him very much. It would be better if he failed, and he would think that maybe his parents were right. What should be noted here is that you know what the child said is wrong, but in order to save your child, let him go. If he doesn't speak his mind and do what you ask, it means that the child is in danger. He is not even in the mood to take care of his parents, let alone respect them. So do this three times, one word "hit". Pay attention to "so three turns"

In short, in order to fundamentally resolve the child's rebellious psychology, parents must do a good job in communication with their children and fully care, love and respect him. Parents should have their own principles, and your principles cannot be changed, especially because of him. When educating such children, we must achieve the "three first comity" and make full use of the principles that everyone must abide by. Okay, I wrote this. I wonder if it will help you.