When children play together, some conflicts will inevitably occur. In order to compete for toys and snacks, they will start quarreling or hitting people, especially in kindergartens. There are so many children, and some children will always be bullied by other children. So, if their children are bullied by their children, what is the most correct thing for parents to do? A preschool teacher told the truth. In order to prevent their children from being wronged in kindergarten, many parents often say to their children, "If a child hits you, you should fight back immediately, so that no one will bully you in the future." As parents, everyone wants to protect their children, which we can understand, but this educational concept is really a bit inappropriate, and violence can't solve the problem.

Parents can't sit idly by when children are bullied. Once, when my husband went to the kindergarten to pick up his son, he happened to see his son pushed to the ground by other children and knocked on the corner of the table. In a rage, my girlfriend immediately pushed the child to the ground. The children were crying and happened to be seen by their parents. As a result, my best friend quarreled with that parent. Originally, America's son was bullied, but now he is very wrong. Since children can't be taught to fight back and parents can't be helpers, how can we prevent children from being bullied? After my best friend and other parents calmed down, the child's teacher finally spoke. She said: "Children don't have the ability to solve problems, so don't teach them to fight back. Don't rush to stand up for your child when he gives you a response of being bullied.

First of all, you should comfort him, ask what happened and how the injury is, so that he can feel safe. Don't question your child easily, let alone say to him, "Why doesn't he bully others but you?" This is very important. Secondly, take your child to the teacher and let the teacher listen to the two children to explain the situation clearly. Children who make mistakes will naturally be educated and punished. Only in this way will he stop bullying other children in the future.

Every parent doesn't want their children to be bullied. When their children are wronged, in order to prevent their children from being hurt again in time, parents must reflect to the teacher in an appropriate way and let the teacher educate the naughty children. After all, the teacher's words are most useful in front of children!