April 1 1 day is the opening ceremony of the first 17 issue of UP Zimu Reading Club. I shared with Zimu Lianmai what we gained in the reading club in the past two years.
I didn't think about grooming before. After combing, I found that I really completed the transformation from "reading" to "using books" here.
Signed up in June 2020. I saw my friend Eiko send a link to a book club in a circle of friends. After listening to a book, I feel that my voice and values are very appetizing.
I just joined the finishing industry at that time. When I need to make many new friends, I decided to join from the issue of 13.
It's very different from the book club I attended before. In the previous online reading meeting, one person was sharing with many people, and I think Zimu was talking to himself alone. There is a feeling that life affects life and you will act involuntarily after listening to it.
I still remember that when I was writing the Monthly Supplement, I described it like this: "This is a book club that I can't stop, and I can follow it for a long time."
This heel is almost two years old.
Before I joined the book club, I didn't quite believe that "reading can change a person's fate"
This stuff feels like chicken soup. I have read so many books in the past, but I haven't seen much change.
Four years ago, Zimu shared her own state. At that time, her hands were so poor that she didn't even have money for diapers. This is a far cry from the "fresh, calm, intelligent and steaming" life we now perceive, which surprises me. This kind of life is also what I yearn for.
After entering the reading club, I found that the partners here are very different. When I attended the book club, but there was no requirement for hard punching, I spontaneously output my reading comprehension, and the atmosphere was very relaxed. The partners here will not say "how many books have I read so far", but "what I can use" and what I can practice.
Then we will find that people who study 1-2 in the reading club and those who study 7-8 in the reading club have different energy fields when they are doing emotional output and sharing their own gains.
The sooner you follow your partner, the more stable they will be, the more diversified they will look at things, the less anxious they will feel, and the different levels of internal richness will be.
What's more strange is that even though I listened carefully and took notes with Zimu's explanation, after listening for a while, I found that I had never heard of it before, and there was a new encounter.
Repeat your feelings at any time.
Then I found those books whose names I didn't buy at first sight, and I began to like them after listening to the explanation here.
For example, what happens when you realize your dream? This book describes your feelings after achieving your previous goals in a super clear way. I also made a dream clock of 100 days.
For example, "Introduction to Observation on the Road" and "Unjustified Joy" have strengthened my love and record of beautiful things.
For example, listening to the book "The Secret of the Babylonian Rich Man" happened to be practicing "saving money" during that time. Usually Zimu mentioned "saving money" many times in the group, and with the consolidation of that book at that time, now I really implanted the thinking of "saving before spending" and changed my habit for decades.
There is also "Ma Chan". When I listened to this book, it happened to be in the early stage of pregnancy, which helped me a lot. In fact, I have been listening to the book club during the whole pregnancy, and my state during the whole pregnancy is relatively stable. There is no irritability and anxiety, so the child is relatively easy to take care of.
The Book of Metamorphosis is a book that excites me. In the past, I have been looking for something to do all my life. It turns out that finding talents is not once and for all, and it is normal to say that it is impermanent, which gives me an energy to seize the present.
If it weren't for this sharing, I would never want to take stock of my gains among book lovers. I wouldn't know that I wrote dozens of reading notes. I forgot that I was a book club from 13.
After this combing, I intend to open up a reading output column and pick it up again, which is another gift I received at the opening ceremony.
Looking back on yourself, how did you go from "reading" to "using books"? It may be just five words: give time to soak. Among them, the book "Reading in this way is enough" has planted the seeds of "using books" for me.
When I first entered the book club, I envied everyone's output and achievements, but I didn't adapt to the sharing and learning rhythm of the platform at first, so many books of 13 were made up later.
Later, I tried to record everything Zimu said and I felt with a form, and found it difficult, and the time was too difficult to concentrate, which increased the difficulty of reading.
Later, I heard that an idea was to use it and practice it, and then I found my own rhythm.
Zi Mu said that if you want to know whether you have grown up, you can read a book together once in a while and you can see your changes.
Zi Mu said that when a person has reading habits, he will have many ways to solve problems, which is no longer the solidified way in the past. Reading is the most cost-effective self-investment for ordinary people.
Zi Mu said with emotion in "Conversation Class in the First Class": It turns out that this kind of experience can also be published, and many people can really publish books. They pressed the confirm key for themselves and also for me.
Zi Mu said that after meeting some teachers, she would write a copy and send it to each other, which made me very moved, and now I have done the same.
..... too many wives practice too much.
There are also her methods in educating children, and the education of children's financial business and American business is particularly worth learning.
Therefore, at the beginning of each reading meeting, I also send links to friends around me who are in need, which also affects the gratitude rate of many friends who come here to study together. 100%, haha.
Here, in addition to book sharing, it feels more like a "life training ground". We are all fellow initiates, most of whom are mothers. It's interesting for us to study together and be elegant and beautiful old ladies together.
Finally, I want to say that if you want to find a place to relax, but you can make yourself fall in love with reading, there is absolutely nothing wrong with coming here!