I am a pupil who is about to enter the fifth grade. I think every parent wants their children to be lively and cheerful or do well in school. From elementary school to junior high school to high school or university. I know that with the development of time, parents are the most important role. Father, in particular, helps us with our lessons every day when we get home, and also undertakes the life at home.

Speaking from my own experience, this father's education and advice to children.

1. Father should learn to be patient. Many fathers are very eager for their children's study, forcing them to study, leaving them with no time to play all day. Some children can't help their fathers being so strict. He began to cry. Never do this, because his father will lose his mind. Fathers should learn to be patient and communicate with their children's hearts, which will make their children's academic performance better and better.

2. Let children learn to be happy. Happiness is also a good learning method. If children grow up in a happy atmosphere, they will increase their interest in learning. If children are unhappy, they have no interest in learning. Happiness mentioned here is still the most important way to learn.

3. Learn to communicate with children. Many fathers beat and scold their children when they encounter something, and they can't communicate in time, which not only hurts their self-esteem, but also creates a generation gap with their children, and there will be bad feelings in the future. I hope all fathers can get along with us calmly and learn to communicate with their children when they encounter something, so that the relationship between father and daughter will get better and better.

It is every parent's greatest wish to have a healthy, sunny, active and cheerful child. My daughter studied English from Yaya to Tingting and graduated from college. I accompanied her all the way, and I gained and lost in education. Now let me briefly talk about it, which may inspire you.

Nowadays, there are many only children, and many children tend to develop the habit of being spoiled, selfish and self-centered, so parents should educate their children about the virtues of sharing with others from an early age. In this way, it is easy to cultivate children's emotional intelligence, and when they grow up, they can also develop the habit of cooperating with others, and they will not be arrogant, arrogant and hostile.

Learning the habit of sharing with others from an early age is also a necessary moral character to integrate into society in the future. It is also the basis and premise of getting along with others, which is more conducive to the healthy and sustainable development of children in the future. Scholars who have won the Nobel Prize in Science are the first to learn to share when recalling a person's most important qualities.

Happiness is a kind of ability, and happiness is also a kind of quality. Happiness, like other skills, needs to be learned and cultivated.

Children go to school and come home from school every day. I don't ask how she is doing, but who did she help today? Sending a child to school is not to ask her to study hard when she goes to school, but to ask her to help the teacher get the books, clean the blackboard, clear the lecture table, help the students on duty sweep the floor, mop the table and move the bench.

Learn to care about others and show a kind and friendly quality. When you grow up, you will find that a person's happiness is closely related to her kindness.

I cultivate children's good qualities, first of all, guide her to treat her family's attitudes and methods, such as eating and helping her elders with chopsticks; Keep small pets and educate children to care for small animals; There are beggars in Lu Yu. Let her lend a helping hand and do her best to help those in need.

Cultivating the habit of exercise is the basis and premise of having a healthy body. Nowadays, many children are as fat as balls, and they are as slow as tottering old people at an early age, all because they eat too much and exercise too little. Therefore, let children love sports from an early age.

Exercise can not only exercise and make children less sick, in fact, it can also cultivate children's cheerful and healthy psychology, cultivate positive spirit, enhance their intellectual development and learn to cooperate with others.

In short, children's growth can not be separated from the careful cultivation of parents. We are all ordinary people and don't expect our children to get ahead. We just want her to be an ordinary person and enjoy the happiness of ordinary people.

The biggest advice, of course, is to actively participate in children's education!

Not to mention any methods, skills and knowledge, we have surpassed many dads in active participation.

Let me talk about my advice from the experience of a father who has been involved in parenting:

1, from the beginning of pregnancy, pay attention to parenting and give birth first, which is the premise of everything. If you don't even want to quit smoking and drinking during pregnancy, the hope of being a good father is slim. Do a good job in pre-pregnancy health and lay the foundation for future children from sperm.

2. The wife should provide logistics and support during pregnancy. Don't leave everything to her mother or mother-in-law. Only by participating from the beginning can she exercise her corresponding ability. On call, pay attention to fetal development and pay more attention to the wife's emotions.

Take the responsibility of being a father from the moment the child is born. Take the lead when it's time to make milk powder, and go forward when it's time to change diapers. Don't say you can't do it. It's the first time for anyone to be a parent, and it's the first time for mom to do these things. She can't learn. If she can't learn such a simple thing, what can she do? It is an excuse to say that it is not suitable and can't learn. Have no deep love for children.

A colleague of mine said: Her husband can pick up the baby's poop by hand and doesn't mind getting dirty. Looking at the child's round stool, I said that the child's stool is very cute.

I have a friend. Once I went to his house to play, I met a child who took a shit. My friend felt embarrassed and smelly. But his wife said, what stinks? Why does my son's poop stink?

I think these two people really love children! When you accept and love your child from the heart, the smelly child becomes cute! Everyone who has been there knows that the baby's poop is not that bad unless he is sick. )

4, the first thing after work, give the child a hug. Put down your bag and pick up your dear baby at once!

5. Interact with your child as soon as you have time, put down your mobile phone and play games with your child.

6. I don't know how to do it? Unconsciously? Find it difficult? Then study! Buy more parenting books, pay more attention to a parenting WeChat official account, and read more articles, videos, movies and TV dramas related to children. Don't keep brushing Tik Tok, and waste events on boring things. Learning to be a good father is something to be proud of! Learn to learn, everything will become easy, everything will become simple, learn to learn, those who can't, can't do, difficulties will disappear. Raising children can be easy.

7, or learning, learning can not be anxious, in order not to follow the trend and run exhausted. Take out the spirit of the college entrance examination, and the harvest is definitely not worse than being admitted to a famous university! That is the height of the next generation's life.

I read many articles saying that middle-aged people love learning and can get several degrees in the process of tutoring their children. It's true. But among those middle-aged people who are studying, there are many old mothers, and old fathers have to keep up.

Learning also includes cultivating personal charm values. For example, it is better to pay attention to intimacy and psychology.

8. Read a bedtime story to your child. Don't always give it to your mother. Dad can do better! Well-known big coffees such as Uncle Kai, Dad Ha and Dad Qian. In the circle of moms, which one is not the real story machine? They are all persisting and practicing! You don't have to be a professional, but you can give your children the best reading habits. If you accompany them, you are a great hero in their eyes!

That's all, I hope every child has a good father!

Every parent wants to have a healthy, lively and happy child, and when the child grows up with time, parents must play a key guiding role in the growth of the child. In fact, a child's father plays a vital role from babbling to entering school and then growing up.

Many children who lack the care of their fathers will have some defects in their personalities, so what should fathers do to help their children grow up healthily? Let's discuss it together ~

1. Learn to communicate.

Communication requires patience. Many fathers cannot communicate patiently. If the children make noise, father will go crazy. This is absolutely unacceptable. At this time, the father needs to calm down and not scold the child loudly. If he scolds them, the children will never listen to you How does father communicate with them? If you communicate patiently with your child from the beginning, your child will certainly listen, and your mood will gradually ease, laying a good foundation for subsequent communication and the problem will be solved.

Step 2 consult patiently

When a child reaches the age of 5 or 6, it is the age to enter primary school. At this time, the child will start to write homework slowly, which is a headache for many parents, because it is very difficult to educate children to study. At this time, fathers should never scold them loudly because they can't do their homework, because each child has different understanding of learning. Some children may be faster and some children may be slower. But it doesn't mean that a child who can't do the problem is a stupid child. They just lack a correct method. Then fathers should prepare some simple methods in advance, teach their children to do problems, treat homework as a game, and accompany their children to "go through customs."

3. Don't cheat children

Children trust their parents the most in childhood. As a symbol of authority, father has a high prestige in children's eyes, but this means that father must not break his promise to children, because it will cause children to distrust the world and lose their sense of security. Therefore, fathers must do what they say to their children and try their best to make promises to their children, which will also help children develop excellent qualities of honesty and trustworthiness.

In short, children's growth is bound to be inseparable from their father's patient communication and careful training. His father is a mountain to protect children and a harbor to shelter them from the wind and rain. As a father, you must not be stingy with your love for your children ~

"If the son doesn't teach, the father is guilty."

On the issue of raising children, mothers basically occupy a dominant position, but on the issue of children's education, fathers often play a decisive role.

So, what can I do to be a competent father?

First of all, fathers should not only earn money to support their families and create a comfortable family environment, but also give their children enough companionship. It is said that companionship is the longest confession, and this sentence also applies to parent-child relationship.

Companionship does not mean phone calls, videos or other high-tech, but actually squatting down to spend good time with children.

The lack of fatherly love often leads to the defects of children's character. Timid, inferior and cowardly "left-behind children"

Is the best proof.

Secondly, fathers should set an example, cultivate their fine character and set a good example for their children.

Many people may have heard the story of Ceng Zi killing pigs.

During the Spring and Autumn Period, Lu people were sincere and kept their word. One day, the wife had something to go out, and her son cried to go with him. The wife went home to kill pigs for her son. When Ceng Zi came home, he understood the reason, immediately set about killing pigs and said to his wife, "The child is still not sensible. He obeyed his parents' instruction. If you cheat him today, he won't believe you. You have to do what you say to your children, otherwise, what qualifications are there to educate your children? " The wife is extremely ashamed.

Match words with deeds, be honest and trustworthy. The ancients still did this, let alone us?

In fact, in addition to companionship and role models, fathers have many things to do, such as understanding the growth, development and psychological state of children. However, everything can't be changed without it. As long as you love your children and put them into action, you can be a good father.

1, it must be companionship, because I think the most important thing in education is companionship. Even if you buy him his favorite toys, he still wants you to play with him, play various roles together and put those toys there. How lonely is he playing alone? What's the point? Even if he is busy, he should take time out to spend more time with his children.

2, that is, words and deeds, many children imitate learning. Children will learn from it if they don't talk about civilization. If you want to educate him well, you must first set an example, do your own thing first, and then ask your children to educate their children. You have a sense of responsibility, and your child will have a sense of responsibility, because he will say what my father is like and you have no sense of responsibility. Children will say that my father is like this.

I still feel patient. Many fathers are impatient. Maybe children will collapse when they are noisy, so they will quickly ask others for help or scold loudly, so that they will not express anything to you in the future. How do you educate him? He will tell you what he thinks is good, and he will choose to hide it for fear of being scolded. If he is more patient with his children at first, his mood will gradually stabilize, so communication will be better next time. I don't think most fathers have patience.

Just a personal opinion.

The image of my father, in my memory after 1985, is a mountain and a back. Therefore, dependence and strictness are the greatest educational influences of fathers. First of all, dad spends money on eating, drinking and having fun, including going out to play. Loose to loose, but when making rules, dad is strict, more fierce, naughty little monkey really can't stand it, so he has to do it. After the habit is formed, I naturally cultivate a tough character like my father, and have a good performance in terms of pressure resistance and endurance. Father's love and father's image are so important!

The success of education means the success of everything, and the key is education.

Learn Chinese studies, learn traditional culture, such as the three-character classic, learn morality first, then learn culture. From the beginning of learning to be a man, traditional culture can't be lost. Without noble morality, there is no use in having money. Without the bottom line of being a man, nothing can be said.