However, after reading so much, I also found that many parenting books, under the banner of "parenting experts", are actually rewritten by writers with no parenting experience based on various unreliable materials, which is particularly easy to mislead readers without any science. In fact, there are not many parenting books, but they are expensive. The basic classical theory is at the bottom, and they are more confident in educating children.
1 "Parenting Choice"
Author: Chen Xin
Recommended reading audience: parents aged 0- 10.
The author of this book is a member of the American Child Development Research Association, a doctor of developmental psychology, and a great V Chen Xin of Sina Parenting.
After five years, he selected 13 issues that parents are generally concerned about, such as sense of security, sensitive period, creativity, self-control and so on, and explained them with profound developmental psychology research and theory.
People who really teach children must have a background in child psychology. This book not only explains psychology, but also provides practical and effective methods for everyone with their own parenting cases.
Generally speaking, this book is a very good combination of "Western child psychology theory+China family parenting practice".
I have watched it many times by myself, and every time I read it, I feel the information explodes. It will really reduce my anxiety and blindness, and I feel better able to understand the various "bad behaviors" of children. After knowing the reason, I will learn some skills and use them more easily.
2 "Children: Challenges"
Author: Rudolf? Drex
Recommended reading audience: 1 year+parents of children.
The author of this book is an American child psychologist, psychiatrist and educator. Founder of modern practical child psychology.
He creatively developed Adler's psychoanalysis and individual psychology into a series of practical methods, which directly influenced the proposal of positive discipline, parents' pet efficacy and other methods, and had a far-reaching and extensive influence in western education.
Recommended reason:
Nowadays, family education methods such as "active discipline" and "parents' pet efficacy" are extremely popular in the market, and their theories are all based on the psychological theory of Rudolf Drex, the author of this book.
In the book, the author argues that parents should neither indulge their children nor severely punish them. Parents should learn how to be children's collaborators, have the means to understand them, and have the ability to guide them, so as not to let them become neglected "wild children" or feel depressed and suffocated at home.