Teenagers rebel. Parents should go into their children's inner world. Parents should see their children's growth, respect their self-esteem, trust their children and understand their inner world. For example, let children try to be parents on weekends and let them arrange activities for each member, which can not only show their abilities, but also make them feel the same way and strengthen their feelings with their parents.

Teachers should never give up their students. In the middle school stage, the polarization trend of students is obvious. Compared with those excellent students, those students who are temporarily behind need the care and education of teachers more. At this time, affirmation, encouragement and praise are particularly important. Talk to those students who are temporarily behind, help them establish the belief that "I can learn well" and "I can succeed", and let them really feel the teacher's concern and help for him and never give up on him. Only in this way can we fundamentally eliminate their rebellious psychology and promote their transformation.

Teenagers should put themselves in their own shoes and restrain themselves. Faced with complex social problems, teenagers often lack correct cognitive ability. At this time, we should learn to understand parents and teachers in a positive sense and understand them with a tolerant attitude. We should also grasp ourselves, remind ourselves at all times, accept the education of teachers and parents with an open mind, calm down in advance and restrain our irritability and stubbornness. At the same time, teenagers should improve their psychological adaptability and develop their self-worth.

In fact, adolescence is a precious period for all children. Zhengzhou Xinyu major solves adolescent problems and has a professional team of teachers and an authoritative psychological counseling team to help parents better accompany their children through this golden period.