One morning, a child's parents asked me: "Teacher, the child said that a child kept hitting him, as if his name was * * *." Our children don't want to come to kindergarten these two days. " After listening to it, I quickly asked: "Where did the child say it was? What's your name? "

"Our child is so small, how can he say it clearly? Anyway, just pay more attention to your teachers and don't let them sit next to each other. " I said, "OK, I'll pay attention."

At this point, * * *' s mother just sent her children to kindergarten. In order not to cause conflicts between parents, I quickly said, "Here comes another good baby. Say goodbye to her mother! Let's go and wash our hands. "

Although things have passed, I have been thinking about it. Do children in small classes really hit people on purpose? I want to say to parents: "Don't judge children by what we adults think. They are so kind and naive that everything is beautiful in their world. As Saint Amethyst said, "At the beginning of life, human nature is good". "In the children's ideological world, there is no hatred, jealousy, revenge, hypocrisy and deception. Only the expression of true feelings, cry if you want, laugh if you are happy, like is like, angry is angry, but it will be forgotten immediately afterwards, so I always think this is the advantage that I should learn from my children. For example, "there are often two children fighting in kindergarten. They come to complain and complain to each other. Teachers sometimes say, "well, don't play together, lest we fight again." But less than five minutes later, they played happily together again. They are best friends. The less time they spend playing together, the better they will be. " Therefore, we said, "Children don't care about us adults, so why bother?"

Moreover, children in small classes are not clear about the rules, and we need to be teachers to guide them correctly. For example, in the process of going to the toilet, children don't know how to line up at first, and when they get to the toilet, they squeeze into the front. They often hear children say, "Teacher * * children push me, and * * * children hit me." If our teacher's analysis is incorrect and blindly criticizes, it is bound to make children misunderstand. If parents are biased and afraid that their children will suffer, false induction is bound to make their children make mistakes. Children in small classes have insufficient language skills and only pay attention to what they are interested in. Children of this age can't tell reality from imagination, and sometimes they tell imaginary things to make their parents mistakenly think they are true. Some parents will use some inducing language to ask children questions, which is not desirable. For example, "How is the teacher? Did the teacher criticize you today? Did the children hit you? ……"

There are not many cases in which children in small classes deliberately hit people. Usually playing with toys, walking into people, or inviting each other to play, will lead to misunderstandings. Therefore, parents and friends should not worry and feel distressed, but should understand other people's children, that is, understand their own children.