First of all, teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. Parents should first pay attention to their own cultivation and establish their own prestige. A parent who doesn't like learning and only cares about eating, drinking and having fun, a parent who knows nothing, a parent with bad conduct, vulgar behavior, selfishness and disrespect for the elderly, will not cultivate good children. Second, pay attention to parenting education. Children are very concerned about whether their parents have made great efforts for their growth. Although some parents are with their children all the year round, they don't always communicate with each other. Most parents neglect parenting education on the grounds of being busy. Parents' parenting education should be ahead of their children's physical and mental development, so parents should devote themselves to their children's education, keep learning and improve their ability to educate their children, so as to win their respect and love. Third, create a good knowledge environment. Children should have a good small environment for learning, not for luxury, but for atmosphere. When studying, students should avoid unnecessary family chats and friends gatherings. And try to tolerate their shortcomings. Look at children with a magnifying glass, knowing that there are no perfect children in the world, even perfect children have their own shortcomings. Parents' unconditional trust in their children is an important basis for communication with their children. 5. Praise more and criticize less. Appropriate praise is a stimulant and lubricant for parents to communicate with their children. Parents always understand, appreciate, praise and encourage their children, which will enhance their self-esteem and self-confidence. Remember: praise and encouragement make children progress, and criticism and complaints make children fall behind. Sixth, when correcting children's key shortcomings, we must pay attention to maturity and choose the best place and opportunity. Finally, please remember the following sentence: the premise of educating children is to know them. Appreciation leads to success, and complaining leads to failure. How to cultivate their children and communicate with them unimpeded is a problem that every family and every parent is very concerned about, and it is also a very difficult problem in today's social environment. When communicating with children, parents need to adjust their psychology first, and hint to themselves: I have such a lovely child, we will grow up together, we will face many problems together, and we will live happier and more fun than others. Only in this way can we establish a good foundation for effective communication with children. Frankly speaking, the birth and growth of children today are all "sound and light", which is completely different from the reception system of parents when they were young. If parents still tell their children what to do with a single voice, they will find it particularly boring. Today, many children can watch TV, listen to music and do their homework at the same time. Because he grew up in a family environment with various household appliances, he has this habit and skill of overcharge. Such systematic stimulation is much stronger and more effective than simple language symbol stimulation. Therefore, if parents are still complacent and educate their children with the original education model, it will certainly not arouse their interest. On the contrary, even in the eyes of children, parents often become boring symbols; On the other hand, the endless stream of high-tech products has had a profound impact on children's lives.