2. Rebellion is a name from a psychological point of view. There will be many rebellious periods in a person's life, and 7-9 years old is the second rebellious period for children. Children in this period are different from infants in infancy, but quasi-adults. They no longer want to be treated as children. On the one hand, they want to escape the control of adults, on the other hand, they are very dependent on adults, so they are often very sensitive at that time. Therefore, adults need to pay special attention during this period.
3. Parents first care and love their children tenderly, and guide them to take part in more practical activities and do more things. At the same time, parents should spend more time with their children, communicate with them more, don't put pressure on them when they encounter problems, don't criticize them, comfort them in time, and give affirmation and praise to their children's every progress; Decompress your child, let him feel the dependence and warmth of his parents, give him support, give him strength, and let him feel the strong spiritual support behind him, because the love of parents is the best encouragement for his children.
A child who grows up in a loving environment will be a confident, sunny and caring child. He will share his love with those around him who need help in time and become a person who is beneficial to society and others. In short, parents are the strongest spiritual pillar of children at any time!
5. Pay more attention to what he needs and wants. Criticizing children must not hurt self-esteem. Distinguish between occasions and wording, criticize children in front of relatives, friends or children's companions, children will feel embarrassed and dissatisfied, and they will not listen to parents' criticism. The wording of criticism should be appropriate, and it is practical, that is, it is practical and does not turn over old scores.
6. Children always have to grow up. Especially after kindergarten education, children's sense of independence is getting stronger and stronger. As parents, they should feel gratified. This is the growth that children get after learning. But the sense of independence also enables children to judge things for themselves. Parents should learn to respect their children's wishes and make good friends with them.