1, set an example; Many parents think their children are lazy, but they don't realize that they are among them. In order to improve children's lazy temperament, parents should first move and set an example, and then educate their children to move. Otherwise, even if you talk nonsense, children will still say one thing when they look at you, but it is actually another. Children naturally cannot receive education, so parents must stand up and set a good example for their children.

2. Cultivate self-care ability; Many parents dote on their children, thinking that they are still young and take care of everything for them, which leads to their lack of self-care ability and gradually develops an increasingly lazy temperament. Therefore, parents must not spoil their children too much. Proper exercise of children's self-care ability can improve children's mood and ability to do things, which will naturally improve children's laziness and improve their practical ability.

3. Learn to listen; When children are talking to us, they shouldn't be distracted by other things, so they don't pay enough attention and respect. Children may think that you are perfunctory, which often leads to disobedience in such contact life. To truly understand the child's voice, we must be able to truly understand the child's inner thoughts. For example, when communicating with children, keep eye contact, listen patiently to what the children say through eye contact, don't interrupt in the middle, and don't criticize when the children speak badly.

4. Get along with them more and integrate into their lives; Nowadays, many children are left behind, and their parents are far away from home. Most of them are brought up by the older generation, which will lead them to spend less time with their parents and be influenced by other children, so they are disobedient. As parents, we should spend more time with them. When you have time, you can go home to see your children, go out with them and relax together, so that you can enhance your feelings with your children faster and understand the world in their hearts.

5, don't always mention those bad things in the past; When children are disobedient, don't always turn over old scores and mention what those children did wrong in the past, which will often backfire and lead to children becoming more and more disobedient. When they do something wrong, we should patiently sit down and analyze with them why they can't do it, what will happen after doing something wrong, understand their real thoughts, and guide and educate them correctly.