Study hard, exercise hard and earn money. Such an excellent girl has aroused people's boiling and exploded the pot on the Internet. Some parents began to study, what kind of education did Gu Ailing receive? What kind of educational thinking did Gu Ailing give us? How can we learn from Gu Ailing's parents and educate an excellent child?
First, respect the wishes of children and guide them according to the situation. There are no two identical leaves in the world, and neither are people. In the process of a child's growth from birth to later, it can be said that his talents are different, his personality is different and his hobbies are quite different. Go to kindergarten and primary school to see if there are any identical children. The answer is definitely no, so how to educate children with different characteristics has become a major topic for parents.
Let's see what Gu Ailing's parents did. Gu Ailing's mother Gu Yan likes skiing. Gu Ailing took her skiing when she was very young, and she has been fond of skiing ever since. In addition, Gu Ailing also likes riding, singing, long-distance running and basketball, and has won medals in school basketball competitions and long-distance running competitions.
Experience summary: children are completely independent individuals. Parents should pay attention to their children, get to know them, see what their specialties and interests are, and then take advantage of the situation, edify them for a long time, and provide targeted guidance and guidance to make them an excellent child.
Second, learning is very important, and it is also important to have a wide range of hobbies. Now some parents are very concerned about their children's study and are very strict. It is certainly a good thing for children to spend a lot of time studying and brushing questions. For children, learning is the main business, so we must do a good job in learning and make achievements. However, although learning is important, it is also important to cultivate children's hobbies.
Let's take a look at Gu Ailing again. Besides studying, people can ski, ride horses, sing songs and play basketball. They have many interests and hobbies. Look at Gu Ailing's parents. In order to support Gu Ailing's skiing, she drives her daughter to ski and train every weekend or holiday in the skiing season. It takes eight hours to drive back and forth every day, and Gu Yan has persisted in more than ten snow seasons.
Gu Ailing's parents not only cultivate their children's hobbies, but also spend time and energy. On the other hand, some parents are reluctant to let their children do housework, such as washing dishes and sweeping the floor, for fear that other things will delay their children's study.
Experience summary: For a child, learning and grades are really important, but learning and grades are not the only thing for a child. On the basis of attaching importance to children's learning, parents should also pay attention to cultivating children's various hobbies, that is, to make children develop in an all-round way, be healthy, study well and have their own hobbies, so that children can become excellent children in the future.
I don't know what you think of the educational thinking given to us by Gu Ailing's phenomenon, and what good methods and suggestions are there. Welcome comments and messages.