Modern people's life is under great pressure. It is difficult for parents to control their temper if they meet disobedient and naughty children. But if the child just made a small mistake, I suggest that parents should control their emotions and try to avoid losing their temper, which can be solved through communication. Because parents often lose their temper, which is very harmful to children, children are prone to rebellious psychology, and parents often have slight consequences for children.

The child is rebellious. Children's rebellious mentality is manifested in ignoring their parents' words. Even if parents lose their temper, children are not afraid or even resist. This will make it more and more difficult for children to be disciplined. Parents who lead to children's grumpy temper often lose their temper with their children, and children will easily become grumpy when they are adults, and they can hardly control their emotions. Because parents will lose their temper and educate their children, and children will learn from you. Parents can't control their emotions, and children will gradually lose their rational ability.

If parents always lose their temper at home, children living in this environment will gradually lose their temper and use it to solve problems in life and work. But losing your temper can't solve the problem at all. On the contrary, it will make people around you feel irritable, affect the harmony of interpersonal relationships, and then lead to depression of children, and even lead to depression or autism. For example, if the father at home drinks and commits domestic violence, parents should pay attention to their children and don't let this serious consequence happen.

Affect parent-child relationship and family happiness. Parents who lose their temper with their children for a long time can easily lead to the deterioration of parent-child relationship, make children form a negative self-restraint mentality, and even affect their ability to establish intimate relationships with others. Faced with parents' bad emotions for a long time, some children will doubt whether they are their own children, some children will want to run away from home, some children will hate or even hate their parents, and some children will blame themselves and form a negative self-evaluation. And develop a sense of inferiority, the child's subconscious will think that I always do something wrong, my mother is unhappy, my mother doesn't like me, others don't like me, and I am redundant, causing a long-term psychological shadow to the child.