The first step to cultivate children's EQ is to teach them to survive and stand on their own feet. Step 2: Cultivate empathy. Step 3: Cultivate a sense of responsibility. Step 4: Ability to manage emotions.

Cultivate adaptability. Children will integrate into this society as soon as possible one day. Children should have a gradual adaptation process before entering the society. Some parents rarely let their children go out, especially younger children, who are always worried about this and that, fearing that their children can't adapt to the weather, people and environment outside. Gradually, children are reluctant to go out on their own initiative and will cry when they meet strangers. Such children will shrink back when they grow up. As a parent, you should know that children have independent personalities. When he left his mother, he needed to adapt to a brand-new environment. If you don't give your child a chance, his adaptability will naturally not sprout.

Cultivate curiosity and exploration spirit. At first, children passively accept external stimuli. With the growth of age, children gradually become curious about everything around them and want to try to touch and see. I want to try whether the hot water is really that hot, feel whether the power socket is charged and see why the plane is flying in the sky. If parents don't let their children move when their curiosity is budding, because they are afraid that their children will be hurt or make mistakes, then when you want him to be interested in doing something in the future, he will be too lazy to move.

Cultivating self-confidence is achieved by your own actions. Children who are always fed can't eat by themselves. So, when the child wants to take the spoon by himself, let him take it, even though he knows it will make the rice grains all over the floor. When a child thinks that he has done something worthy of praise from an adult, as a parent, he should encourage his child at an appropriate time, even if it is a smile of approval. Children who grow up in this family atmosphere will have enough self-confidence and believe in themselves.