First, learn to control emotions.
In children's world, taking care of emotions is always more important than solving problems. A clever mother knows how to assume the role of mother when facing her children, always reminding herself to forget her unhappiness and always being aware of her current emotional state. Learn to control your emotions and pay more attention to the tone and way of communication with your children and family. Don't complain, lose your temper and be harsh at any time, so as to create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere and give children a healthy and comfortable growth environment.
Second, learn to express love.
Some people say that whether a mother can express love determines a child's ability to love. A child without love, no matter how excellent, will be barren and lose the ability to love. And love children, even in the face of setbacks and valleys, also know how to love yourself, love others, and get along well with the world. Therefore, please speak out your love for your family boldly, and children will imitate and copy.
Third, teach children to be active.
Educator Tao Xingzhi said: "Parents give their children a correct thinking orientation, which is equivalent to giving them dependence on the world." Mother is the soul of the family, even if the material is poor, don't forget to create a rich spiritual world for the children. In the eyes of children, as long as there is a kind and optimistic mother, the family will always be full of laughter.
Fourth, accept the imperfection of life.
If you always feel that the world is not perfect, and you are always angry and blaming people and things around you, in fact, it is you who need to change. When you can't be perfect, please let yourself go; When the child is not perfect, please let yourself go. Learn to accept yourself, children and imperfections. Perfection means accepting all imperfections. Of course, acceptance does not mean acceptance. There is one of the most important ideas behind the behavior of accepting children, that is, "mistakes are the best learning opportunities." Acceptance will open the gap and let love be perceived.
With stable emotions, selfless love, kindness and optimism, and being able to accept all imperfections, they are the most perfect parents in children's eyes. Parents' personality, especially the mother's personality, affects the child's life.
Happiness and love are the most precious life gifts that mothers give their children. May every mother in the world be happy and loving!