1, accept him now.
If you are only interested in whether your child is the best reader in the class, you expect too much. Every child grows at his own pace. Comparing your child with other children will make him feel that if he doesn't study and do things according to a certain standard, he is a failure.
2. Encourage methods.
General formula of incentive:
Encouragement = trusting children (personality, ability)+believing that you can do it+physical contact.
In order to restore children's courage and confidence, parents should not only tell their children in words that you believe in their character and ability, but also encourage them to try or try again. More importantly, they should have physical contact with their children and convey trust and strength to them by hugging, patting their shoulders or stroking their hair. Only in this way can children truly feel strength and regain their courage and self-confidence.
3. Find hidden difficulties.
Have you ever asked your children why they suddenly don't want to take part in group activities and do their homework? Maybe he will tell the truth under your questioning-he has been bullied by bad children, he doesn't like his teacher and so on. If a child becomes unmotivated, he usually has a reasonable reason.
4. explain your reasons.
If you don't want your child to give up piano education because you are sure it will be good for him, what will you do? Whatever you want to do, don't yell at the child and scold him at the top of your lungs. After shouting for a few minutes, he stopped listening to what you were saying.
5. Pay attention to the role of praise.
Praise must be targeted. Just say "well done" and he will know that you haven't really noticed him and his achievements.
Parents will promise that if children do well in the exam, they will get a bike; If you don't do well in the exam, you will get nothing. In fact, it is a terrible attitude to treat children like this. Parents are advised not to give their children too much reward.