Cherrie Ying once said, "I am a strict mother, so I will make some rules. For example, when my son cries, I will wait for him to stop and hug him. " If her son rolls on the ground because he wants something, she will never compromise or let him roll on the ground because he wants something.
In Cherrie Ying's parenting concept, the most important thing is not to give you whatever you want and take whatever you want!
Moreover, she thinks it is necessary to educate children, especially boys, occasionally, and there seems nothing wrong with the reason she gave: "Because I don't want others to beat my son, I want to teach my son well before others beat him."
Although this "tiger mother" occasionally uses "force", she insists that when hitting children, don't be in crowded places, because children also have self-esteem.
The living conditions of a couple in "Star Couple" are certainly much better than ordinary people, but Cherrie Ying doesn't spoil his son too much. She should be strict when she should be strict. For the sake of her son, she reduced a lot of work to accompany him. Send my son to the most expensive international kindergarten, because this kindergarten can go directly to primary and secondary schools, and I don't want my son to have too much pressure on further studies and exams.
She said, "The children in Hong Kong are so tired now! Childhood is for play, for happiness. There are many difficult days in life. Why do children have to suffer from childhood? I hope my son can have a happy childhood. "
Cherrie Ying also gave his son a lot of interest classes, but he didn't force the child to get any achievements, but cultivated his interest and exercised his son's ability.
One more thing, it is worth learning for all parents, that is, to quit mobile phones! Cherrie Ying and Jordan chan gave up the bad habit of playing mobile phones together at home in order to set an example for their son and prevent him from indulging in mobile phones and tablets. This also formed Jasper's good habit of reading.
Brother Pheasant was impatient, because he didn't have much time to spend with Jasper because of work, so he spoke so fiercely to his son. In fact, he didn't mean to be fierce. Besides, Brother Pheasant also learned to communicate with Jasper patiently in later programs, hoping to educate his son through patient narration. Sometimes it doesn't matter if he is fierce at all, and children can't just spoil him ~