We advocate sex education from the birth of children, which is an education that is integrated into daily life. Whether parents respect their children's bodies, parents' attitudes towards sex, how family members express their feelings, and even children who can't speak will have a great influence on ta.
If parents hold a negative attitude or instinctive panic when facing the questions raised by their children, then the children will not get the answer. As time goes on, children become copies of their parents. Because parents didn't understand when they were young, children's thirst for knowledge was suppressed by their parents' "ignorance".
Regarding the sexual awareness of children of different ages, in fact, TAs began to explore the world around them by exploring their own bodies, because this is the first thing that TAs can come into contact with. When the children grow up to one or two years old, TAs can realize their existence and independent individuals outside. At this time, the child's self-awareness began to form. With self-awareness, TAs began to explore "What am I like?" During the period before puberty, children will explore their relationship with the world around them, such as their parents, their brothers and sisters, their friends and classmates, and their teachers. From the earliest curiosity about the body, they will gradually explore interpersonal relationships and learn to abide by social norms.
For the sake of children's safety, some parents will directly tell their children that "Grandpa is a bad person". In fact, we think this is a dangerous practice because it will destroy children's trust in the world and the people around them. In sex education, we should explain the reproductive organs to children from three aspects: protection, respect and rights, and then teach them the concept of preventing sexual assault. At the same time, we don't want to introduce the reproductive organs to children as a special organ, which is the same as other organs in the body.
First of all, we will tell children that the body is our own, the body has dignity, and all organs of the body need to be protected, because these organs play a very important role. If they are not well protected, they will not be able to work and people will get sick.
Secondly, the reproductive organs, including the private parts of our bodies, should be carefully protected, and we should not let others touch them at will or touch our private parts. This is a respect for one's own body, and it is also a respect for others' bodies.
In addition, tell children the rights of the body, which includes taking good care of the body. "Because your body is yours, you have the right to protect your body. If someone invades your body, you should stand up and stop him from doing so. Ask for help if necessary. "