? Specifically, the education of rebellious girls can work hard in the following aspects:
1, treat children's rebellious period correctly, don't panic, don't beat and scold children with extreme behavior, because this is a process that children must go through. Adolescent girls are more sensitive, impulsive and emotional. They rebelled and set off a wave of anger, no less than boys.
Parents should not take full responsibility, but should seriously reflect on themselves. Girls are rebellious, especially rebellious girls. Most of them can't get rid of their parents' real ignorance, concern and connivance. ? 10 of the rebellious girls, 8 are due to lack of parental care, or bad relationship between parents, or single-parent families, or grandparents, or lack of paternal love, or family indifference, and so on. ? The other two are children with too good family conditions, who are unconditionally spoiled by their parents and raised with money.
3. Creating a harmonious and relaxed family atmosphere and having a family in full swing is a magic weapon to resolve the parent-child relationship.
Rebellious girls need an independent space and their own private space. They have their own concerns, their own small emotions and their own small ideas. They don't want to be controlled and disturbed by their parents, nor do they want to be influenced by their parents' endless nagging. Therefore, correctly letting go is also an education, a better education. Especially for rebellious girls, proper letting go and guidance are more useful than discipline and control.
4. Stop nagging, compulsion and restriction, and maintain normal emotional communication.
Nagging is not a way of education, nor is it the key to the rebellious child's mind. Nagging will only aggravate rebellion and push children farther and farther away from you. Coercion and restriction are tantamount to siege and blockade, and the result can only be breakthrough and influx. Instead of solving the problem, it will make the situation worse. When children grow up, especially girls, their inner world is very delicate and complicated, and they need to get rid of the shackles of their parents. Therefore, it is a better choice for parents to stop nagging and restricting and maintain equal and normal communication with their children.
Parent-child relationship must be based on trust, understanding and unconditional love.
Girls in the rebellious period need more emotional care, love and dependence. A harmonious and democratic family, a family full of joy, a family full of love and a family full of equal communication will minimize the impetuousness, restlessness and uneasiness of adolescence. To teach girls in rebellious period, we should start from the family, change the tense and depressed family atmosphere in the past, pay more attention to the family, communicate with the family, use the family to resolve children's anxiety and anxiety, and use the family to influence girls' hearts.