1. Not responsible to the public.
Don't blame children in public, but give them dignity in public. I'm not doing well enough in this respect, and I'm slowly improving, mainly because I have a bad temper, and I'm trying to change more.
I regret it.
If a child is ashamed of his behavior and regrets it, adults should not blame him. Most children will admit their mistakes, and I won't blame him any more. However, today's children are also very smart, and they will make adults feel fine in behavior and language, thus avoiding punishment. Therefore, in this respect, I still think that mistakes should be punished, and repeated mistakes should be punished. However, if a method has little effect, it is necessary to change the method in time. After all, it is difficult for children to control their bodies, and they need to impress her in various ways.
3. Don't be responsible at dusk.
Don't blame the children before going to bed at night. At this time, blame her. Children go to bed with this depressed mood, or they can't sleep at night or have nightmares. Remember, pay attention to this aspect. Relatively speaking, children don't want to sleep, and it is easy to blame her before going to bed. No wonder she doesn't have a good rest at night. There may be some reasons for this, so we should remember this aspect in the future.
4. Irresponsible diet.
Don't blame the children when eating. At this time, blaming the child is easy to cause the child's spleen and stomach weakness. Remember, the same reason.
5. Being happy is irresponsible.
Don't blame the child when he is particularly happy. When people are happy, the meridians are in an unobstructed state. If the child is suddenly scolded, the meridians will be overwhelmed immediately, which is very harmful to the child's health. Personally, I think this problem should be separated and properly reminded. The truth that happiness brings sorrow must be often felt by children.
6. Sadness is irresponsible.
Don't blame the child when she is depressed. I think this should also be viewed from two aspects. If you can't speak when you cry, you won't blame him, so it's easy for children to cry and cry to solve problems. On the contrary, if the child is silent, she can no longer be blamed.
7. Illness is irresponsible.
Don't blame the child when she is ill. Sickness is the most vulnerable time, and children need the care and warmth of their parents more, which is more effective than any medicine. I also think it depends on the serious illness. You can't stop cursing because of a slight illness, or the child will pretend to be sick.
In the face of human sociality, we are no wiser than the ancients. We have more than the ancients because we have better materials, so we can control more power. Therefore, parents nowadays should learn more from the ancients and others when educating their children, but we must educate our children more than the ancients in one aspect: educate children to understand the power of machines (or forces other than human beings), so as to use and control those forces.