Such a tragedy has been repeated more than once. In addition to being full of anger, parents should also think about how to educate their children on the issue of self-safety.
The best protection for daughters is extreme education.
A 17-year-old girl once came home at midnight in summer. A few days later, her father asked her out for a drink and said to her, "Try to drink. Dad will take you home. Don't worry! "
They went to five stores to eat and drink that day, and at the last one they had no memory. She got drunk in the bar.
Later, her father called a taxi to take her home.
The next day, the girl woke up and found her father out early in the morning, but left her a letter.
The letter said: Do you remember how much you drank last night and then fainted? That's two beers and a tall coin. This is your limit. There are many bad people in the world, so I can't always be there to protect you. That's why I let you know your limits and learn to protect yourself. I believe you can do it.
The father didn't educate his daughter in a tough way, but gave her a good lesson in such a special way.
Indeed, what girls need most in self-safety education is an extreme education. Parents try their best to raise their daughter and protect her for ten or twenty years, but children can't stay in their own vision all the time, and they will grow up after all. When they grow up, society will not give girls too many opportunities for trial and error, and once they have it, it will be fatal. Therefore, girls need to have a bottom line, know the limits they can bear, and protect themselves by knowing their own limits.
The best protection for son is sunshine education.
There is a boy of 14 years old who saw a book he liked for a long time in the newsstand after school, but he didn't have that much money, so he had the cheek to hide it in his arms. Unexpectedly, the boss who just turned around found out, and the boss sent him to the police station. Several policemen questioned him in turn and called the father of the child.
Soon, the father of the child arrived. The boy lowered his head and silently waited for his father's scolding.
"I think this must be a misunderstanding." The father said simply, "Because I know my son very well. He is a very sensible child. He must like this book very much, just because he didn't bring enough money. what do you think? I'll pay three times the price for this book and it's over. "
Then my father took out his wallet. The boy was stunned. He looked at his father, and his father looked at him. There is no blame in his eyes, only love.
After leaving the police station, my father stopped. He held the child's face full of shame and emotion and said, "Son, people will make mistakes more or less in this life. Listen, forget it! Don't let it leave a shadow in your heart, study hard and live well. As long as you don't make the same mistake again, you are still a child who makes your parents proud! "
With that, he solemnly put the book in the child's hand. The boy burst into tears uncontrollably, and his father lovingly held him in his arms.
The best protection for boys is sunshine education. Boys will inevitably make mistakes when they grow up. If they can't get the correct education in time after making mistakes, it is easy for them to go astray and fall into the quagmire of shadows because of too many negative factors in society. At this time, parents' sunshine education is needed to teach children to learn to take responsibility, so that children can learn from their mistakes and be responsible for their actions.
Faced with some bad behaviors of children, what parents need more is logical positive discipline. While pointing out mistakes, we should also point out some advantages of children. Let children learn to appreciate themselves and be themselves with better conduct, which is a sublimation of teaching boys to protect themselves.