Method 1
1, teaching by example is more important than teaching by words. Filial piety is cultivated under the example of parents. Therefore, in order to cultivate primary school students' filial piety and know how to love, parents should first set an example and be filial to their elders, because "teaching by example is more important than teaching by example."
2. Learn to be grateful. Gratitude comes from conscience, which is the family foundation of filial piety. However, gratitude is not a natural emotion and must be educated. Parents should consciously let primary school students understand the hardships of their parents, it is not easy to earn money to support their families, parents love their children, and parents also need their children's care and love. Therefore, parents might as well often tell their pupils about the day: getting up, cooking, washing clothes, tidying up housework, going to work and so on. Let primary school students realize how they care about them, such as: children are sick, how parents feel distressed, how to stay up late to take care of their children … The details are the most infectious. Let primary school students develop good habits of caring, loving and caring for their parents, such as combing their mothers' hair and massaging their fathers' backs.
3. Start small and start small. Let primary school students form the good habit of filial piety to their parents, and we should start from small things to shape and cultivate them. For example, we should educate primary school students to care about their parents' health, help their parents share their worries and help them do housework. When primary school students can't, parents should teach patiently; Pupils do something wrong, don't blame them indiscriminately. Pupils do well, so we should praise and encourage them more. Only through personal practice and experience can primary school students appreciate the hardships of their parents and taste the happiness they have paid for others. When primary school students form the concept that "my parents raised me and I should do more for them", primary school students have a sense of obligation and responsibility for life.
Method 2
1. Example is more important than words.
There is such an advertisement: a young mother who just got off work finished housework and brought water to wash the feet of the elderly. The old man said to her, "have a rest, son!" " Don't wear yourself out. "She smiled and said," mom, not tired. "The young mother's words and deeds were seen by her son who was only 3 or 4 years old. The son silently brought a basin of water. The youngest son walked towards his mother with a basin of water. The water in the basin spilled all over the child, but the child still had a bright face. Put water at mother's feet and wash her feet. The advertising picture is fixed here, and the slogan reads: "Parents are the best teachers for children". Yes, that's how filial piety is learned and passed down. Filial piety is cultivated under the example of parents. Therefore, in order to cultivate children's filial piety and know how to love, parents should first set an example for their elders, because "teaching by example is more important than teaching by example." "
Learn to be grateful
Let children learn to be grateful. Gratitude comes from conscience, conscience and virtue, which is the family foundation of filial piety. However, gratitude is not a natural emotion and must be educated. Parents should consciously let their children understand their parents' hard work, it is not easy to earn money to support their families, their love for their children, and their parents also need their children's care and love. Therefore, parents may wish to tell their children the things of the day: getting up, cooking, washing clothes, tidying up housework, going to work and so on. Let children realize how they care about their children, such as: children are sick, how parents feel distressed, how to stay up late to take care of their children ... The details are the most infectious. Knowing how to be grateful is gratitude, and gratitude is gratitude. Let children form the good habit of caring, loving and caring for their parents from an early age, such as combing their mothers' hair and giving their fathers a back rub.
3. Start small and start small.
Let children develop the good habit of filial piety to their parents, and start from small things to shape and cultivate them. For example, educate children to care about their parents' health, help parents share their worries and help parents do housework. Parents should be patient when children can't do it. Don't criticize the child for doing something wrong. Children should be praised and encouraged when they are done well. Only through personal practice and experience can children feel the hardships of their parents and taste the happiness that their parents have paid for others. When children's concept of "my parents raised me, I should do more for them" is gradually formed, children will have a sense of obligation and responsibility for life. This is also what contemporary children lack most. Because they usually only know how to accept love, don't know how to give love, and don't learn to care and appreciate. Parents should never think like this: children are still young, and their main task is to study. As long as you study well, you don't need to do anything, but you should change your mind: academic performance is not the only evaluation criterion. There are many standards for a good boy, and filial piety is an important standard. As the saying goes, "Look at the old at 3 years old and look at the old at 8 years old." Because habits become nature, bad habits formed from childhood are hard to change when they grow up.
To cultivate children's filial piety, we should start from an early age.
Make family rules
State-owned laws and family rules. Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang. A family needs democracy, not paternalism, but necessary family rules are indispensable. Parents can discuss with their children and formulate a code of conduct for "honoring parents". I put forward "five wants and five don 'ts" for parents' reference. The "five essentials" are to understand, be close to, care for, respect and be considerate of parents. The "five noes" are: don't interfere with parents' work and rest, don't make parents angry, don't contradict their parents, don't monopolize their parents, and don't compare with others. There are several specific requirements for "five wants and five don 'ts": ① Remember parents' birthdays; Do your own thing; I will be a parent one day; (4) go to find relatives alone; I work with my parents all day.
5. Parent-child interaction
Parents should communicate with their children more, play games and engage in activities together: parents and children should read an article together. Such as: filial piety is priceless; Parents and children sing a song together. Such as: Letter from Home, Visit Home Often, Mother by Candlelight, Mother's Kiss, Ode to Mother and so on. Parents and children recite a poem together. Such as: wandering sons, mother's rainy season, mother, my patron saint and so on In the activities of parent-child interaction, we can not only enjoy family happiness, but also cultivate children's good moral character of respecting their elders in a subtle way.
6. Home-school cooperation
Parents can take the initiative to cooperate with the school and ask the teacher to give students a family questionnaire, so that students can visit their parents at home with the topic "How much do parents know about their habits?"
The reference topics are as follows: ① Parents' schedule. (2) What do parents do in a day, how long they work, how hard they work, and how much their average income is. (3) What housework did parents do after returning home and how long did it take? What did parents do for their children and how much time did they spend? Do you know your parents' hobbies, physical condition and living habits? Do you feel the hardships of your parents? Do you understand them? What's your usual attitude towards your parents? On the basis of investigation, make a plan to communicate with and honor parents.
Famous words of filial piety
Young and old are orderly. -Mencius
Who can say that a filial child like the weak can repay his mother's love like the sunshine in spring? -Meng Jiao
Filial piety can often replace the noblest feelings. -Mencius
Mother is the only force that can make death yield. Gorky
Respecting the elderly is the best privilege in the human spirit. Stendhal
Treat your parents as you want your children to treat you. -Isokrates