First, don't interfere too much in children's private lives, which will easily affect the development trend of interpersonal relationships.
Nowadays, it is easy for parents to interfere too much with their children's personal daily life, as I have seen widely in colleges and universities, that is, teachers take their children to class in the classroom. Conclusion A large wave of parents are squatting by the window of the classroom to observe their children's class. When I see my son tickling with other children, parents will stop because of excessive worry, but parents ignore a problem. They interfere too much in children's private lives, but it is more likely to affect the rapid development of children's interpersonal relationships, so other children will think that this child is not easy to contact and his parents are unfriendly.
Second, you don't have to devote yourself to your child's daily life, so you can't exercise your child's self-control ability.
Many parents leave messages saying that their children are weak and unconscious, especially when sending their children to school. However, parents ignore a problem because they are basically in charge of their children's daily life. In fact, their poor self-care ability has a lot to do with them, because they can easily make children mistakenly think that they don't have to do these things, and he will think that he goes to school alone to achieve his parents' goals, not out of personal responsibility and hobbies.
Third, don't build children's anxiety about learning and training prematurely.
There are also some parents who are anxious about their children's study and training prematurely. When children are supposed to play and vent their nature, parents keep asking their children to learn some off-topic contents and compare them with other children, mainly because parents are too anxious and impose more expectations on their children, so they pass that anxiety to their sons prematurely, but they don't know that parents are more likely to make their children feel tired of learning in the future.