Ma Yili said: "The real feeling of being a mother is that the moment you see your child, a strong maternal love will overwhelm you, and you will want to give everything to TA."
Let's start with Ma Yili's parenting book: When her daughter cried on the first day of school, Ma Yili turned her head and sat in the car crying instead of coaxing her. Although this method seems ruthless, it is precisely to exercise the independence of children and make them stronger inside.
1. Summary: Sometimes we have to let children know clearly that it is useless to cry in some things, and crying can't solve all problems.
What is the "stupid education method" of smart mothers?
For example, when a child is playing a game, he suddenly asks you; Mom, what is 1+5?
Don't reply directly at this time: it is equal to 5. It says, hey, what's this? Let me calculate.
Then take out your hand, first reach out 1 finger, then ask the child to help you, count five fingers, and then you count together, which is equal to 6. Repeat: It turns out that 1+5 is equal to 6. Wow, we can count. Counting is so interesting. The two of us are amazing.
How much is 1 1+ 10, mainly because children participate in interactive learning.
When children are young, there are always various problems, such as: why the sky is white, why the grass is green, why birds fly, why ants move, why dinosaurs are gone now, whether there are people on Mars, and so on.
Don't use your mobile phone to check the information at this time.
Why do you have to buy 100 thousand at home for a rainy day? (Of course, you can watch it together at ordinary times. Sometimes children don't want to see it, and they don't have to worry about buying it. Isn't it useful for children to ask these questions? )
Don't think that being a mother is omnipotent. Don't do this in front of the children. We should be a mother who can't do anything in front of her children.
For example, my child asked me to make him a beautiful assembly machine. I'll say, okay. Then find various reasons to ask TA what to do next.
My child will have a headache and say, hey, mom, you can't even do this.
I said: haha, mom wants to learn from you. Why are your little hands so clever? It's amazing. You spell too fast. What is this?
What we adults can do, we don't want to do it for our children. Children who love thinking and thinking make rapid progress.
For example; My relative's children are in the first grade, and the teacher once asked them to make posters.
Your child won't tell you about it until you get off work. It's too late at this time. Do you finish it for your child, or don't do it, or find it online and print it out for teaching?
Another mother said directly to the child, "Oh, my mother hasn't learned to draw, and she can't draw. Isn't your painting very good? " Do it yourself "
The child said, "I won't, I don't know how to do it."
So what did they think of? I found one directly on the internet and followed suit. In this way, every time the school has a poster or a picture of Teacher's Day, the teacher asks the children to draw it. Because the more you draw, the better. And very creative.
Sometimes when I go out to play, I will meet some children crying and making noise. Then, parents just cajole, beat and scold, or buy something that a child wants nearby. It just doesn't look good anyway.
Children are prone to negative psychology. As long as I cry, you can buy me anything I want.
If you want your children to learn, promise them to watch TV after learning. Then it must be cashed. The world of children is very simple, one is one and the other is two.
If you can't keep your promise, don't keep it, or it will damage your image in the eyes of your children.
1. Praise should be more specific. For example, today, the child drew a picture that is unconstrained and unconstrained, saying that you and your father took TA out to play together, and then you said: Dad drew so cool, wow, mom's long braid is really beautiful.
We went out to play hand in hand, in a place where birds are singing and flowers are fragrant. It's really fun.
2. For example, tell you a story: Although it doesn't match the contents in the book, don't worry, you can look at the image and express yourself. The child is still very good.
You can say: Hey, you have listened to all the stories I told you. What you said was so interesting that I couldn't take my eyes off it and forgot to record it for you. I want to record the story that the baby told so beautifully for you.
Encouraging children to talk more is to be an admirer of TA.
Some people say that your painting imagination is so rich, imagination is so rich, and color matching is also very good. "A lot of people like you. The more we practice, the more powerful it will be.
We will record this video every day in the future, and then send it to the platform for everyone to watch with you. I believe you will become stronger.
Dressing and eating, children like to dawdle and always wait for adults to help. But in kindergarten, these simple things are still for children to learn by themselves.