The writer is a fourth-grade class teacher in Xiping County, Zhumadian, Henan Province. Previously, the teacher sent the scores of students' dictation of ancient poems and photos of students to parents, which caused some parents' dissatisfaction.

Then the teacher apologized in the group:

The teacher first felt sorry for his behavior and promised that he would not send any learning information to the group in the future. At the same time, she also said that she is busy with her lessons every day and has tried her best to take care of every student. She still hopes that parents can understand and make comments and suggestions. Finally, she begged her parents not to sue themselves to the education bureau because of a small problem.

The development after the incident was unexpected. On the day when the group apologized, the teacher wrote a letter of resignation to the school leaders.

This short resignation letter is full of a teacher's remorse, fear and confusion.

The matter was subsequently fermented on the Internet, which triggered a hot discussion among netizens:

@ Zhao Lu 'an:

In this world, teachers are the least to blame, and children are the least to be spoiled. Only by taking care of small mistakes can we make big mistakes. Letting teachers take care of children is the greatest responsibility and protection for children. ...

@ Half a degree:

Treating children, sometimes hitting is also a sign of love. Which post-80s student has never been beaten and scolded by his parents or punished by his teacher? I am often punished, but I still respect my parents and teachers. If you know their love, you will understand your own shortcomings, and you will try to be yourself. When love is a thing of the past, you will feel lonely!

@ crowd:

It is not terrible for teachers to punish children when they are noisy. The terrible thing is that the teacher ignores the children.

@wjyth:

If I hadn't chosen this career, if I had to choose again now, I would definitely never be a teacher again! Of course, I really like teaching, but these terrible phenomena will really make us feel uneasy about this profession and even dare not touch it!

@L:

At this moment, I can't help but feel shocked to see such news. I should also think deeply and stick to this profession. Where is hope and future? ? It is said that children's growth can not be separated from the combination of family, school and teachers, but there is no trust, only hard work, and who will eventually suffer? !

In Ma Bei's view, parents' dissatisfaction is understandable. After all, no one wants their children to be the object of discussion or even ridicule by other parents and children because of their poor grades. However, asking teachers to apologize at home or even report to the Education Bureau is really a bit of a fuss.

No wonder the older the teacher gets, the more confused he becomes: in the past, parents were not high in knowledge and spoke respectfully to the teacher, leaving both the teacher and the children to you!

But today's parents are young, broad-minded and well-educated. Why is this phenomenon more and more?

The child made a mistake, instead of looking for problems in the child, he blamed the teacher for being too strict;

If there is something wrong with the child's grades, instead of looking for the problem of learning effect, blame the teacher for not paying attention;

In fact, the reason why teachers dare not take care of it is because parents are unwilling to take care of it. As the saying goes, drowning a child is like killing a child. Since ancient times, no child has been spoiled.

However, if parents don't want to take care of it, society will take care of it for you. You can spoil children, but society won't.

The previous repatriation incident also taught bear parents who indulged their children a big lesson.

A couple from China took their 6-year-old child to LA for a holiday. As a result, after boarding the plane, the child kept making noise and punched and kicked the Chinese and Japanese brothers next to him. After several forbearance, the little brother politely asked the father next to him if he could take care of the children, but his father ignored him directly.

Later, it was the last straw, and the little brother scolded Xiong Haizi. The father actually scuffled with his little brother, and Xiong Haizi continued to make trouble. The flight attendant separated them temporarily for the sake of silence.

When the plane landed, they were greeted by fully armed FBI law enforcement officers, border police and airport security personnel. It turned out that after the conflict, the flight attendants contacted the ground airport police on the grounds of endangering flight safety. The police came and took Xiong Haizi's family and little brother away directly. After investigation, it was Xiong Haizi who made trouble on the plane, and his father beat people first, so Xiong Haizi's family of three were repatriated.

If you don't educate a good boy, someone will educate you later. If children are spoiled, it will be a disaster sooner or later.

Ma Bei said.

Ma Bei doesn't approve of the stick education of violent feeding, and even more opposes the abnormal and cruel corporal punishment, but I expect our teachers to punish them reasonably.

When we were young, the teacher had a ruler, and the students were disobedient, so they could slap and spank. After the fight, parents should still be invited. At that time, parents thanked the teacher wholeheartedly.

"If the son doesn't teach, the father is guilty, the teaching is lax, and the teacher is lazy." When a teacher loses his pointer, he certainly loses his majesty and responsibility.

In any case, please give teachers the right to dare to discipline, instead of being so scared and worried about the possible consequences of saying something serious.