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Li Meijin, a university professor: Before a child is 6 years old, what "characters" are taught by parents more important than anything else?
Li Meijin, a university professor: Before a child is 6 years old, what "characters" are taught by parents more important than anything else? Li Meijin has been teaching in People's Public Security University since 1982, and has worked for 37 years. Li Meijin, who has been engaged in youth work for a long time, has profound views on the psychological state of middle school students and its development. However, some personal behaviors that parents usually ignore, and even many of them are mistaken as "positive data signals", should be corrected and dealt with in time and cannot be ignored.

Every once in a while, it is easy to see such a news report. Children throw objects from a height, causing vehicles parked downstairs in the community to be smashed and even neighbors to be injured. This kind of news reports are varied. However, every time this kind of thing breaks out, it always ends in a lot of thunder and little rain. Some parents even think that it is just a naughty child, so don't do it again next time. But in fact, such news reports are common.

Experts and professors in Li Meijin have also put forward their own opinions on this issue before: in the process of human growth, besides love, we need to know "respect" and "fear". Only when you make a mistake will you be punished, so that children will know that they are afraid, and they will truly regret it and will not dare to make it again.

It is especially important for children to understand this truth before they are 6 years old. Parents believe that it is a kind of maintenance for children not to be accused or punished. As a matter of fact, the old saying "Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang" has been answered. Left unchecked, it usually leads to the extreme personality of children and confusion after entering society.

When children are young, they lack self-identity and sense of responsibility. At this time, the most important thing is a little bit of transmission from parents, a little bit of behavior correction combined with reality, and the shaping of their concepts. When one parent is teaching the child, while the other parent is still trying to shirk the responsibility for the child, it often leads the child to feel the accumulation of "unscrupulous" concepts.

Often when dealing with Xiong Haizi, some people will habitually say a word: "You will know when you enter the social development!" In fact, this just reflects that when parents lack proper education, the impact on children is not only to analyze whether this matter is correct at present, but also to do great harm to the formation of character, which will become a little regrettable suspense when problems may arise in the future.

Let children know "respect" and "fear" early, and then they will control their personal behavior, and then they will know that "there is something urgent to do, and there is something not to do." Cultural education is not only to let children know professional knowledge and master culture and art, but also to let children know a lot of public order and good customs, so that children can really put society first, instead of rushing in and out for various reasons, resulting in various problems. It was probably useless to correct children at that time.