Which is better, Buddhist education or strict education? Why? Bian Xiao thinks that the education of Buddhism is better, because the child is also an independent person, and he especially likes freedom. If parents are too strict, it may make children rebellious and make them very reluctant to listen to their parents. But parents should not believe in Buddhism too much, because the children's three views have not been fully established. He is still very strange about this matter, and he has no idea how to deal with it at all, so he should help the children when they need help and let them tide over the difficulties. When children go astray or encounter very troublesome problems, parents should help them solve them. They can't let them go, they can't stand by and care. Strict education can't be said to be bad, but it may make children feel a sense of fear towards their parents and alienate them.
Strict education may make children lose self-confidence and can only listen to their parents. If parents are too strict, children may lose self-confidence and feel self-doubt. Is it because they have done everything wrong that they are so strict with themselves that they can't praise themselves at all? So parents should not be too strict. When implementing strict education, we must master the severity and not be too strict. If my parents are too controlling, they may make their children lose self-confidence, let them be mourned and let them just listen. Parents can't handle problems independently, and such children can't stand in this society.