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People often say that parents are the best teachers for their children, but I want to say that children are the best teachers for their parents.

Not every parent is born a good parent. They need to learn and make continuous progress in order to become good parents.

A girl I met in a group told me her story: when I was a child, my parents disagreed, always quarreled and often started fighting. The most serious time, my mother was beaten by my father with a broken leg and internal injuries, but she didn't go to the hospital. Mother lay at home for several months and finally recovered.

At the age of ten, she begged her parents for a divorce, but they didn't divorce and they quarreled. When she grew up, she suffered from depression and once felt that she was going to die. Finally, she got married and had a home of her own. She seldom goes back to her parents' house because they still quarrel and start fighting. She is afraid to go back and face her parents who have hurt her.

She has her own children, and she has been worried that she can't educate them well and that they will go their own way. Living in fear every day, I can't do my work well and I can't handle my family relationship well.

Later, my son changed her, because no matter how tired and desperate she was every day, he would make her happy and leave her delicious food. Her son's innocent smile touched her, and she felt that as a mother, she should grow up with her son. Later, she went deep into her heart and kept learning to create a happy and comfortable environment for her son.

In the past, she had a very painful life, and her circle of friends was full of negative energy. Nowadays, she really lives a transparent life and often guides those who have emotional difficulties in the group. Friends circle often sends some beautiful daily or inspirational words. I can see that she is very happy now.

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I met a part-time teacher in college. She had a steady job, but later she quit her job and went it alone. The training class was very successful, and many students came. Her husband works as a teacher in a middle school affiliated to a university, and she is basically responsible for training courses and family affairs.

Even though he is busy, his son's education is not at all backward. A seven-year-old child is well developed in all aspects. Once she told us that her husband didn't really care much about the growth of his children, and he slept at home when he had time.

My son often draws pictures of a family of three. Sometimes the family goes for an outing together, sometimes they read books together, and some words are added, which is especially loving. Her husband was very moved, but he didn't change. Later, when we took the elevator home together, my son suddenly told her husband that he would learn from his father in the future. Her husband suddenly woke up and went back to tell her that his son really taught him a lesson. He really wants to change and set a good example for his children. Later, her husband participated in her son's growth and often helped her do something.

Parents are educated by their children at the same time. Only by growing up with children can every parent become more mature and responsible.

Children are the simplest and smartest individuals in the world. They are not polluted by the world and know how to influence people with love.

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