Parents, as their children's first teachers, have great responsibilities. In a child's life, parents are the first people they contact, and they also have the longest contact time. Children's eyes will observe everything around them, especially their parents' every move. They will imitate their parents, who are the most admired people in their childhood.
As the saying goes, "it is better to teach a thousand miles than to teach a thousand miles." Parents' words and deeds can not only make their children's future more exciting, but also save themselves a lot of heart.
I still remember that my second aunt's family was too poor to buy meat for the New Year, but now her quality of life has obviously improved and she is envied by many people in the local area. At that time, my second aunt was ill, and both children at home were studying. My second uncle worked alone in other places to earn money to support a large family.
Although she is poor, her second aunt never forgets to educate her children. She is both a father and a mother. She gets up early every day and is busy with children and housework. Relatives on this side of the family praised the two children of Er Yi's family for being sensible and polite. Later, after graduating from college, my two cousins also found good jobs. My second cousin resigned after having a certain amount of savings and started his own business. Because he can bear hardships and has the ability, he has made greater career achievements.
The two children are also very filial to her aunt and give her money every month because she doesn't want to live in the city. She also built a house in her hometown and found a nanny to take care of it. Relatives asked her how to raise two excellent children. She said, "The two children are very ordinary, but they have been taught from an early age to suffer hardships, know the hardships of their parents to earn money, and let them know the most basic etiquette. After all, there is nothing to teach them when the family is poor. "
In fact, think about it, this is the best education for parents to teach their children, let them know that life is not easy, know the most basic etiquette, and then try to live a positive life.
On the other hand, my uncle's only son, that is, my little cousin, was so spoiled when he was a child that he didn't finish junior high school. I'm 24 years old, and I still ask my uncle menstruation for money every day. Some time ago, I owed more than 300,000 yuan for online gambling on Bo. My uncle paid him back more than 200,000 yuan and borrowed tens of thousands from my mother. This is the end of the matter.
But in my opinion, if my cousin still doesn't repent, it's only a matter of time before my uncle's family is dragged down by him, so it's very important to cultivate a good child. You don't have to train your children to be excellent and promising in the future, but you must establish the most basic three views, otherwise the family will be implicated in the future.
As parents, it is important to urge children to learn knowledge, but before teaching children to become talents, it is obvious that "adults" are the foundation.