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Children are isolated by individual classmates at school. What should parents do and how to guide them?
If your child is isolated at school, the first step is to know the situation. First, communicate with your child to find out what problems he or she has encountered at school, whether to actively seek solutions from teachers, whether to actively communicate with classmates, and so on. The second is to communicate with the teacher to understand the child's learning situation, performance, getting along with other students, and what problems exist. Parents can only trust their teachers and children, actively communicate with them, adjust their children's bad emotions, communicate well with teachers, and let teachers help their children, so as to better help them out of the predicament.

How to guide children who are isolated at school? 1, adjust your emotions and adjust your psychological balance. No matter what problems children encounter, adults should not be in a messy state, not to mention losing their temper in front of children and venting their parents' dissatisfaction will make children's emotions more broken. Secondly, they will let their children know that the wrong way to solve their parents' problems is to lose their temper. Therefore, parents need to digest their emotions first, then clear their minds and see how to help their children.

2. Reflect on yourself and find the reason from yourself. You are your child's first teacher, and your child's introverted, withdrawn, timid, afraid and inferior personality is probably due to your failure to educate your child, or your own introverted and withdrawn personality has influenced your child.

3. Understand the background of children being isolated at school, that is, the events that happened. How does the child react to isolation, that is, how does he or she react to the incident? Think about what you would do if you were in that situation. You can share your past experiences with your children, or what you would do if you were in this situation. If children are naughty, they should be persuaded and educated. If other students deliberately ignore or bully their children, you should ask the class teacher to help persuade and educate those powerful students.

4. Teach children some social skills. When children go to school, bring them some small toys, picture books or snacks and tell them to play and eat with their deskmates or other students after class. Other students will like and welcome them.

5. Communicate closely with classmates' parents and teachers by phone, WeChat or QQ group to keep abreast of all kinds of school developments. The interaction between children can be solved in a timely and convenient way through the coordination between parents.

6. Give your child a chance to face it independently and encourage him to handle it well! Sharpen children's will in different experiences, increase their wisdom, and at the same time, their minds will grow! It is normal for children to encounter disappointment of one kind or another when they are growing up. Mainly to teach children to have a correct attitude, be optimistic, actively correct their words and deeds, and try to make their environment, themselves and others comfortable! These are all subjects that children must go through when they grow up.