We should often communicate with our elders. In family education, when children make mistakes, elders can never be separated. Parents can't just ask their elders to use our methods. Elders should be consistent with our educational philosophy. Only in this way can children's education be successful. Choose appropriate communication opportunities, avoid pointing out problems in person, and don't directly criticize the practices of the elderly. If anyone finds fault, the direct reaction is denial and rebound, which is not good for solving the problem. Moreover, this kind of face-to-face accusation is a disrespect for the elderly and a very bad behavior demonstration for children. You should wait until it's over before talking to the old man. This kind of communication will make the old people understand that we are on one side and help the children together, and no one will pay for anyone.
Choose education methods according to children's personality. Parents and elders should take their children's problems lightly. As parents, they should not make decisions instead of children, so that children can grow up in a relaxed family atmosphere with principles and rules. In a family, parents' education can be the focus. When parents are at home and can take care of their children, elders can take care of their children without too much interference or interference in their parents' education. For the benefit of children, it is important to start from a common goal. When you want to give advice, you should first put yourself in the other person's shoes, not blame, and you should use persuasive communication skills. As young parents, we should thank our elders. Parents should worry about us and our children when they grow up. Therefore, while educating children, we should also let them know that it is difficult for elders to take care of themselves. We should all appreciate and respect our elders.