1-playful, not self-disciplined.
2- Not interested in learning.
3- Irregular life.
4- No hobbies and curiosity.
5- Can't unite classmates.
6- Too introverted, easily out of control, rebellious in adolescence
Every item is enough to make parents have a headache. The lack of communication with their children makes parents lose their ability to restrain their children, making them wild horses and losing their proper control.
What's wrong with your child, but I think if you want to help your child,
The first is to understand the child's psychology, what the child is thinking, and whether there is a breakthrough.
The second is to establish a normal communication mechanism with children, so that children can feel that your help is beneficial to them, and it is love rather than restriction. As long as you solve these two problems, I think you will be smart enough to help your children out of trouble and minimize the confusion you encounter.
Third, we should put down our airs and communicate with our children and friends on an equal footing. It is possible for children to communicate sincerely with you.