Parents like to compare their children with others, which is what puzzles me the most. If parents often compare the shortcomings of their children with the advantages of others' children, they can't see the advantages of their children and keep them in a degraded state. This contrast makes children feel anxious all the time. In the long run, children will become inferior. Besides, I don't understand the following educational methods:

Ask too much of children.

Many parents will label their children as "you are too bad" because their children do badly once, which will dampen their enthusiasm. Children at this stage need opportunities for continuous training and more encouragement from their parents.

Preach as an elder

Take your success in the workplace as the capital to educate your children, and give them a kind of "You see that I am so successful, which means that my behavior is right, so I have the capital to educate you." Children are often suppressed at home and have no right to speak, and their ideas are never respected. Parents will only let their children live and do things their way.

Restrict children with their own cognition

Many parents will use their own cognition to limit their children. Do you know that this will kill their desire to explore the unknown?