1. Some men are too young.
I think the saying that men mature late is really not just talk, but also that men are children who don't grow up. I think there are a lot of words. Some men not only don't grow up, but also don't realize their responsibilities. For example, my father told me that he didn't realize that he really grew up and needed to take responsibility until I entered junior high school. Besides, there are not a few people like my dad. This is a terrible thing, which shows that my mother was guiding me to grow up in the first ten years of my growth.
2. Some men will be bound by traditional ideas.
Some people think that women are husbands and children, and men should not get involved, so they put all the chores of taking care of children on the woman. But times are different now. Women also have their own careers, but the fetters of children will make some women give up their careers. I think it's really a pity, so I still need to find a reliable husband, at least two people to take care of the children together, or wait until the financial ability is good before having children, and I can always hire a nanny.
A mother can't neglect her children.
Some fathers can ignore their children, but mothers really can't. Women are soft, but mothers are strong. Normal mothers can't let go of their children at any time. Therefore, when fathers neglect their children, women's maternal nature allows them to cultivate their own children.
Some mothers don't trust their fathers to take care of their children.
Some mothers love their children too much to trust their fathers to take care of them. I don't think this kind of psychology is really necessary. Father still knows how to take care of children, and not letting his father take care of children is also to find a job for himself.