0~3 years old, to give emotional attention and care to children at this stage of 0~3 years old, what they need most is the establishment of a sense of security. All this can only be achieved through the considerate care and love of parents and their interaction and reply with their babies. Therefore, at the stage of 0~3 years old, the most important thing for parents is to accompany their babies with high quality.

Children 3-6 years old: pay attention to intellectual development. Bloom, an American psychologist, believes that a person's intellectual development begins in childhood. When children are three to six years old, it happens to be the most important stage of family education for preschool children. At this stage, children spend the longest time with their parents, saying, "If you dye it in a pale place, it will be pale, and if you dye it in a yellow place, it will be yellow." Many famous people believe that this is because they got better early education from their parents in their early childhood, and most of them are more perfect and intelligent in early childhood education and intellectual growth. When parents accompany their children and communicate with them, their demeanor, language expression and actions will be conveyed to them. When children produce their own language expression system software, intelligence will be cultivated slowly with this process. Therefore, when children are three to six years old, the focus of family education is "intellectual growth and development". It is necessary to enlighten children's wisdom and let them take the initiative to see, listen and speak more.

Children aged 6- 10: Cultivate children's learning ability. Children of this age are in primary school. If parents can cultivate their children's learning ability well in primary school, then children will not let parents worry too much in later middle school and high school. Parents should establish their children's confidence in learning and let them establish a firm belief that they will develop as long as they are willing to work hard. After all, their children's poor test scores will also affect their learning mentality. Therefore, at this time, parents should not put too much pressure on their children. They should encourage their children to "pursue development instead of achievement", as long as they believe that they will develop diligently, so that children can catch up with the latter. Generally speaking, home is the cradle of children's life and the first primitive classroom teaching for us to receive "cultural education". Family education is not very short-lived, it is accompanied by every major member of the family. If possible, family education can be "mutual", which not only refers to the education of parents to their children, but also includes the influence of children on parents and siblings.