But at present, the lack of family education in Hainan is mainly reflected in the following aspects:
First of all, parents' awareness of family education is weak and their legal responsibility is weakened. The compulsory education law has been promulgated and implemented for a long time, but our parents' educational obligations to their children are far from being put in place. For example, children don't go to school at the prescribed age, and many students don't start the first grade until they are teenagers. It is very common for primary and secondary school students to drop out of school, so parents let them go, and even send their children to hotels, factories and other places to make money to subsidize their families. ...
Secondly, parents' family education is simple and even rude. In the education of children, some parents have simple methods, regard their children as their own private goods, do not know how to respect, understand and understand, and cannot walk into their hearts and communicate with them; Some parents, influenced by bad social atmosphere, will instill incorrect values into their children and give them incorrect guidance; Some parents are eager for success, and those who are light abuse them, and those who are heavy add fists and feet.
The hand that pushes the cradle pushes the world. Parents are the first teachers of the children. You can teach your child to tell the first lie, or you can teach your child to be honest and always strive for the first place.
Now, some parents have a misunderstanding about family education: some parents think that family education is to let children make up lessons, attend training classes and do homework; Some family education is blind doting, and everything is child-centered; Some parents put all the unfulfilled goals on their children, which increases their ideological burden. We can learn from the family education in Finland, Germany, Britain and Japan, whose main purpose is to cultivate good habits and qualities, develop intelligence and enhance physical fitness.
The growth of a child is the result of the joint education of school, society and family, but parents are the children's first teachers, and family education is irreplaceable, unrepeatable and indispensable. Family education is a kind of bacon education, and good teaching and education can promote children's success. A good tutor is like a poem "Good rain knows the season, spring comes into the night with the wind, and things are moistened silently".