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I recently read a post about Xiong Haizi.

A sister witnessed a fourth-grade Xiong Haizi, with a height of 1.4m and a weight of 1.20kg, pushing a pregnant woman ... When asked why she did this, this Xiong Haizi was leisurely eating snacks and said dismissively:

"I saw a pregnant woman fall down and have a miscarriage on TV. I just want to see if she will miscarry if she is pushed down. " Sister heard this and broke out on the spot. ...

I thought netizens would feel a little sorry for Xiong Haizi. After all, Xiong Haizi's knees are blue. However, the comments of netizens have fried the pot. The key is that everyone is supporting this sister's practice.

Fortunately, the pregnant woman finally got over it. I can't imagine what would happen if this sister didn't hold her pregnant sister-in-law in time. A fourth-grade pupil should know the basic principles of respecting pregnant women, not pushing pregnant women and giving up their seats on the bus.

But why is he still so reckless? There is a detail in the post: after my sister severely repaired Xiong Haizi, my sister's aunt complained that the child's back was swollen and his knees were blue.

The implication is: "things have happened, don't hurt the child again, he is still a child!" " "It is precisely because of the inaction and even doting of some family members that Xiong Haizi has the confidence to continue to do evil.

How "bear" is Xiong Haizi?

People on earth are good at living. In our impression, children are naive, pure and kind.

However, do you know how terrible the "bear" sounds of some bears are?

Visit your home, break the lipstick on your dressing table, break the powder cake, pour out the emulsion, and mess up your precious hands.

Urinating anywhere, even deliberately urinating on the elevator button;

Because you are not allowed to play games, you can also row 29 private cars in the basement of the community;

Because of curiosity, you can put the ham sausage in a plastic bottle and let the stray dogs get stuck in the bottle and suffocate. ...

Even some "Xiong Haizi" bears are so serious that they are close to "crime":

Because the construction noise outside the building is too loud

Hinder oneself from watching cartoons

In a rage, the little boy on the eighth floor 10 cut the safety rope under the construction workers outside the building with a knife.

Because I didn't get the fried chicken chops from the girl.

The moment the subway came.

The boy jerked the girl into the runway from behind.

Fortunately, the citizen next to him caught the girl's load.

Otherwise, the consequences will be unimaginable. ...

Afterwards, Xiong Haizi's mother hurriedly pulled Xiong Haizi into the car without even saying an apology.

A little boy didn't get a young girl's cell phone

So I threw up in the girl's hot pot.

After the girl told her parents,

They said with a face of disdain:

"The child is still young and not sensible, just make way."

After the boss changed the soup pot

The little boy splashed the hot bottom of the pot on the young and beautiful face of the girl opposite, saying that it would be ruined.

Two Xiong Haizi jumped from the top of the 30-story building.

Just throw the brick down.

Almost hit a car owner riding an electric car.

Several owners caught the two children red-handed.

Parents said they didn't hit anyone. "Don't scare my baby."

Last year, a 2-year-old girl fell to her death because of a prank.

At that time, the three children took the elevator to the ninth floor together.

A 5-year-old boy pressed the button on the 18 floor.

And a 2-year-old girl who has already left the elevator.

Take the elevator back.

18 floor guardrail just damaged.

After the little girl arrived at 18 floor, she walked to the light, stepped on the air, and unfortunately fell to her death.

There are countless such examples around, some of which are not even "impulsive" or even "unintentional", but obviously bad! ! !

Why do many people hate Xiong Haizi? That's why! Xiong Haizi doesn't know where the bottom line is. They only do it because they find it interesting and curious! Because even if you make a mistake, your family will not blame you, and even help you argue with outsiders!

So it will become more and more arrogant and more and more fearless.

Behind every "Xiong Haizi", there is a "bear parent"

Some netizens have summed up China's four great tolerations: everyone comes, everyone dies, and those who celebrate the New Year are still children. Whenever Xiong Haizi makes a mistake, there is always a kind of "bear parents" who use "he is just a child" as an excuse to avoid responsibility.

There is even a kind of "bear parents". Not to prevent a child from making a mistake, but to indulge and encourage Xiong Haizi's arrogance. "You dare to teach my child a lesson, it's your fault!"

On the Chongqing subway, a child stepped on a public seat in his shoes and soiled the seat. People around him dissuaded the child.

However, the child's mother was unhappy and scolded the passenger: "What's the matter? Is there a law prohibiting children from standing on it? "

It is lucky to meet unreasonable bear parents, but it is terrible to meet people who directly hit people!

In the amusement park, the little boy touched the hip of the young girl, and the girl said something to the child.

I didn't expect the boy's mother to go up and beat him up and abuse the woman loudly.

On the high-speed train, Mr. Liu reminded his father to take good care of the children and keep his voice down. As a result, the father said, "They are still children. What do you care?" Seeing that his father ignored him, Mr. Liu educated the child and was slapped by his mother! This slap in the face directly hit Mr. Liu's left eyeball bleeding.

Parents are the first teachers of the children. If parents don't set an example in education, ignore the rules and prevaricate on the grounds of being young.

Then Xiong Haizi is left with the concept of "I am still young and don't need to consider the consequences". Xiong Haizi, who grew up in such an environment, will pay a more painful price once he crosses the age protection line and gets into trouble again.

Children should not be a shield for parents' educational anomie, let alone an umbrella under the law!

If you teach well, there will be no "Xiong Haizi" in the world.

No child is born a bad boy, boring Xiong Haizi!

Parents are the best teachers for children. As long as parents teach well, there will be no Xiong Haizi in this world!

In the morning rush hour, the traffic jam is motionless.

I found my father's car in front with the door open.

Pick up the yogurt box that the child threw out of the window.

Educate children.

A child ran away with four comic books in the bookstore.

My parents found out and wrote an apology letter.

And leave all the books, 40 yuan.

Stuffed it under the bookstore door early in the morning.

A little boy and his mother took the subway together.

Halfway, an aunt got on the bus with her baby in her arms.

The little boy offered his seat.

When mom is resting,

I put my hand over my mother's head and helped her carry her backpack.

Actor Stephy once shared his educational secrets in a program. Her daughter likes one of her skirts very much, so she insists that it is her own and she wants to wear it. Stephy wouldn't let her do this, thinking it was unreasonable for her daughter to do so.

In the program, Jackson Wang suggested buying a parent-child dress, while Qi Wei said: "Forcing" is a very rude behavior, and children will never develop this bad habit.

You can't just give in to your children. The child must have someone who can control him. Compared with those bear parents who indulge their children blindly, Stephy's concept of parenting can be said to be very correct!

What kind of person you are, what kind of person your children will become. The quality of parents determines the temperament of children.

Spoiling a child will only ruin his life and let him bring the evil in his nature to the extreme.

You are reluctant to discipline Xiong Haizi now, and society will certainly help you educate him in the future!

The words in the documentary Mirror are unforgettable: every child is born with a blank sheet of paper,

Parents are painters,

What the white paper becomes depends on parents.

Giving children the best education is better than raising the poor and the rich. There is no natural Xiong Haizi,

Only the wrong education and absent parents.

Every child deserves a better education. I prepared a copy for my parents today.

Specializing in Xiong Haizi's book list! ! Help you cultivate a good boy with knowledge and courtesy, and refuse to be a "Xiong Haizi"! !

Recommended list

1 "Son, you are the best of yourself"

Content introduction:

Grow up with children × cultivate children's sound personality × love children in the right way.

Cultivate children's good character × the ability to study independently × the ability to live happily.

"Children, You Are the Best Yourself" is a book of spiritual growth for all parents, which cultivates children's character and ability according to their physical and mental development characteristics. According to his own personal experience in raising children, the author tells parents by telling stories. On the basis of respecting the law of children's growth, he follows the trend in a scientific way, helps children become better themselves with a gentle and firm attitude, and raises children with quiet inner strength. The text of this book is warm and pure, and it is a book that can reassure parents.

2 "Develop good living habits"

Content introduction:

No one can grow up without education. We often say that family is the best classroom for education, and parents are the most important teachers for children. The first responsibility of parents is to educate their children, and educating children is to cultivate their good habits first. A famous person once said: "sow the next action and you will get a habit;" Sow a habit and you will gain a character; Sow a character and you will reap a fate. "This book aims at all kinds of problems in children's growth, and puts forward feasible solutions one by one to help parents find their children's problems in time, give timely guidance and help, correct the bad habits that children develop in the process of growing up, cultivate their good habits, and help them to avoid detours and realize their lives better.

3 "Correct children's bad habits"

Content introduction:

Habit makes character, and character determines fate. Good habits can make a person, and bad habits can destroy a person.

This book is a companion to realize lifelong good habits, covering 99 kinds of bad habits in children's study, life, psychology, communication, conduct and physical problems. There are both case analysis and correction methods. It is a widely used, instructive, targeted and operable book. A current book to guide parents to correct their children's bad habits; A "reminder book" for all parents in the world.

4 "28 legal lessons for lawyers and fathers to protect their children"

Content introduction:

Life is an indispensable legal credit course. Parents with more legal knowledge mean more protection for their children. Protecting children's happiness all their lives is the expression of parents' love!

Teenagers in life are an important golden period of growth and development, and there are more and more social changes and family events. In the past, people's concept that "the law can't leave home" or "an honest official can't break housework" needs to be adjusted, and the law protects anyone. However, the fool clause, as an excuse for not understanding the legal provisions, does not mean that you can escape the legal sanctions. This book focuses on the experience and legal perspective of dealing with juvenile cases. Combined with the case analysis in real society, I hope more people can know the law and abide by it. This is a book of daily legal knowledge, which is read by both parents and children. This is a law class that big friends and children should understand!

5 "Parents: Parents of Outstanding Entrepreneurs"

Content introduction:

This book presents in detail the childhood life of nine important figures in China financial circles, such as Li Ka-shing, Liu Chuanzhi, Ren and Pan Shiyi. Their parents' education and influence on them, and their parents' important role in their success. This is a parenting book for entrepreneurs' parents, which inspires readers to learn and make progress.

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