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How to deal with the rebellion of 14-year-olds?
Some children become rebellious as soon as they get to junior high school or high school. Parents try their best to let their children study, and the children not only don't listen, but even beat their parents, which makes them very sad! In the face of children's rebellious period, I think we can start from the following three aspects:
1 understand children more: children in this period need the understanding of their parents more. Parents should also give their children some time to reflect on themselves for some excessive behaviors. More understanding is the key point to enhance feelings and resolve rebellion.
2 communicate with children more: children in this period are sensitive inside. Parents should restrain their emotional impulses, make comments at will, and give their children the right direction in the process of communication.
Before the third grade, my children often don't listen to their parents, their understanding is often poor, and they are always sleepy when writing, which leads to poor grades in all subjects. I accidentally searched Baidu for a "nikola tesla Brain Training" that can stimulate my potential. After reading it, I improved the child's bad condition. I am no longer distracted in school, and my grades in various subjects have also improved a lot. I believe these experiences should be helpful to you. May your dream come true, don't give up!
3. Self-reflection: Before losing your temper with your child, think about whether the child is too rebellious or unreasonable, because you are not necessarily right, so think carefully before you modify it. Never beat and scold a child just because he has done something wrong. This will only make him afraid of you and hate you, and it will not solve the problem at all.