At home, we often hear about the phenomenon of "alienation of relatives", which does exist. For example, my father dotes on my children. When I was a child, the way of education at home was very wrong. My father often teaches me to beat and scold, but when I treat my children, my father seems to be a different person. I talk to them carefully, as if the children are grandfathers and he is grandsons, which makes me puzzled.

1, selfish

Educating children in a loving way can easily make them selfish. For example, if you love a child often, the child will never consider others when considering things, and always take himself as the center, without asking others what he wants to do or considering others' feelings.

2. Affect social interaction

This selfish personality has a great influence on children's social interaction when they grow up. The reason is very simple, because no one wants to be with people who are often selfish, which makes children have great obstacles and difficulties in their future study and work, especially in the workplace.

3. grumpy

This way of indulging in love can easily lead to a child's bad temper. The child is so selfish that he can do whatever he wants. This is of course impossible. When others stop him, he will be very angry at once, because when he is at home, he always does whatever he wants. Not only is nobody in charge, but he also laughs. When he is not satisfied outside, his temper will get worse and worse.