I think parents' initial intention is to make their children better.

Now that urban education is so good, this standard is different. Most of them are only children now. If parents have the conditions, they will want their children to see the world more. There's an old saying: It's better to read thousands of books than take Wan Li Road. After all, studying abroad will expose you to different cultures and customs, and it will also exercise your children's stronger ability to deal with problems. After children learn something from one thing, they can experience it more, regardless of adversity and prosperity, which can increase their experience and improve their endurance.

There are many agents studying abroad now, and there is no fooling. Many parents also blindly follow and keep up with the joneses, thinking that they have money and just go out. As a result, many children completely lack self-management ability, and there are not a few children who are not bad. When they go out, they get into bad habits, indulge in games and encounter personal danger. Therefore, parents should also weigh carefully.

My friend has many children studying abroad, and most of them are good. But there are also many, turtles (returning to China) came back as kelp (unemployed), didn't get a diploma, and wasted their great youth; Some are gilded on the back, which raises children's expectations. If it is high, it will not be low. Such an example may be more appropriate in China.

I hope my answer can help you.

Where is the current urban education? Study in advance? Backlog all the time left for children? Squeeze almost all parents' money? There are few other rooms at home, because many couples turn against each other in their studies and tutoring assignments. This has little to do with whether the city is a city or not, and has a lot to do with the atmosphere of the big environment. Conditional people may not be willing to let children receive exam-oriented education all the time, so that children can be true to themselves to some extent within their ability.

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This phenomenon cannot be generalized.

Some people go abroad for excellent educational resources, which is the real meaning of studying abroad.

Some people are driven by the psychology of worshipping foreign things and admiring foreign things, and want to get ahead.

There are also some people who can't get into key universities in China and go abroad for gold plating, hoping to be superior.

Maybe there are others, to name a few.

Quite simply, they think that foreign education is better than what you call urban education, more suitable for people's growth and more in line with children's nature.

Besides, where is the education in the city now? How much the child's nature is suppressed, once he enters the first grade, it is killing and vicious competition. Parents are busy and children are tired. What's good about children who have no time to exercise except burying themselves in reading?

Glad to answer this question!

Since China's reform and opening up, the development of China has been getting better and better, and the trend of studying in China has experienced ups and downs, but it has risen steadily. Especially in 20 13, the number of international students in China increased significantly. Many people say that if you have money, everyone wants to go out for gold plating, so it is better to come back and look for a job. This is also one of the reasons. The reasons I summarized are as follows:

First, studying abroad can increase different life experiences and broaden your horizons.

Second: learn advanced technologies and specialties from abroad.

Third, the future employment prospects are broader.

Fourth, improve foreign language ability.

Fifth: there are more opportunities for professional choice.

Sixth: contact different cultures and plan your life better.

The above is my answer to this question, and I hope it can be adopted.

Well, in fact, this view has been debated. More than ten years ago, I saw this topic being debated on TV. So my point of view is this: whether to study abroad depends on his family and his children.

To put it bluntly, parents and children in Shangougou yearn for primary schools and junior high schools in the town, schools in the town, schools in the county, and provincial capitals in the city. If they can't go to the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, they are all stepping on it! No way, the anxiety is there, the fairness of education should be strengthened, and people are under great pressure!

You have raised this question very well, which is also a drawback of modern China people. Now that urban education is so good, some people have to send their children abroad for two reasons: first, there is no place to spend more money; Second, it worships foreign things and flatters foreigners, thinking that the moon in China has no foreign circle.

First of all, money. Because our country has developed rapidly in recent years and the national economy has been continuously improved, except for state enterprises and institutions, most of them have been commercialized. Such as real estate, entertainment and so on, which gives some people the opportunity to make money. Because of money, in addition to building villas, buying luxury cars, traveling abroad, we have to send our children abroad to study. No matter how fast he (she) is, as long as he (she) goes abroad, he (she) is better than others. In fact, he (she) showed his admiration. I have a lot of money. How many children of rural farmers go to school abroad? There is only one reason: no money.

Let's talk about the second reason, people who worship foreign things and flatter foreign countries. Although China's various conditions, such as national defense, economy and education, have caught up with western countries and even surpassed them. If there are advanced weapons and economic development beyond them, foreigners have to learn from our experience in China. Besides, China's education is world-class. Up to Tsinghua and Peking University, many famous schools are top in the world. From primary school to middle school, we have nine-year compulsory education and don't charge tuition. China's education level is really excellent, which is obvious to all China people.

Since the educational conditions in China are no worse than those in foreign countries, why do some people insist on sending their children abroad? In a word, these people always think that foreign things are better than China's, otherwise the Japanese will come to rob them. Making big money at home, spending money abroad and studying abroad are actually giving money to others.

China has a long history, extensive and profound. Besides, the development in all aspects is very good now, so I hope that China people will think twice about whether to go abroad or stay at home in order to train the next generation of children.

Many people just express their emotions, but they can't take facts as examples to demonstrate. This is actually an aspect of our lack of education. For example, many people say that China has surpassed western countries. What are the specific aspects? For example, if you say that 5G has surpassed it, what standards prove that it has surpassed it? This standard needs to be recognized by everyone, not according to the standard you understand, and then say that it is completely beyond. This principle also applies to the comparison between foreign countries and China. When foreigners say they are better than us, they must say which aspect is better than us, and the standards must be recognized by everyone.

I'm not saying this to denigrate our country. I am very patriotic. I often say that for most people, patriotism is to do one's job well. For example, I don't send applicants to the wrong school. I don't cheat in cheating. My service attitude is very good and my service is very professional. Because I went to a good school, they all felt very comfortable and caring during the whole process. My work helped them, but didn't add chaos to society. This is the best patriotism. I say this to prevent a sprayer from spraying indiscriminately. Besides, he has his own patriotic slogan, so you can't even criticize his absurdity. It is unpatriotic of you to criticize him.

In addition, patriotism is not full of enthusiasm, and wrong behavior is patriotism, just like parents improperly educating their children. It is estimated that few children want to cultivate their children into bad habits on purpose, and they will never become talents or adults in the future. And many times parents are in the name of love, and education is unsuccessful. The reason is the same.

So many people say that urban education is very good. Why should we send our children to study abroad? This view is wrong in itself. The reason for the error is:

1 Look at the world university rankings. No matter which ranking, the overall ranking of universities in China is relatively backward. These world university rankings, whether made by Shanghai Jiaotong University at home or by other foreign institutions, are far behind on the whole. Moreover, many well-known 985 universities in China want to be admitted, which is really a single-plank bridge with thousands of troops, but the international ranking is still not very good.

Look at the inventions of modern science and technology in the world. Our country has made little contribution. In his recent speech, Minister of Education Chen Baosheng also encouraged China students to study abroad and learn advanced foreign science, technology and cultural knowledge. We still have a long way to go in the field of science and technology. Including Huawei being stuck in the United States, it is actually because of our gap in key core technologies and fields. I have an international student studying this major, and Huawei HR contacted him and offered him a high salary. Including Mr. Ren's speech, we should increase the training of university education talents so that the industrial field can keep up. Studying abroad is obviously one way. This is also the reason why foreign countries restrict visas for studying STEM majors.

Many people say that our basic education is very good, and give examples to prove that, for example, our children or a student went abroad to study and found that his knowledge was better than that of foreign students. In fact, this is the problem of our education, and it is easy to talk in general terms, rather than specifically targeting one aspect. This is the problem in our education. The correct understanding angle and method should be, where are we doing well and where are we lacking? It is true that in China's basic education, including higher education, students work hard on the solid level of knowledge learning, which is our advantage. But there is a big gap between students' thinking, especially in the analysis of specific problems. Some people say that our country trains technical talents and craftsmen, and lacks master talents, which is probably the reason. Our advantage is won by repeatedly brushing the questions. This model is not the best for cultivating students, because in your actual work, what you can really solve is the actual problem, not the problem. So many parents, especially those with better family conditions, send their children abroad to study.

Generally speaking, foreign education is better than our domestic education. Although our education has made great progress than when the People's Republic of China was founded, there is still a lot of space and distance to catch up with. In addition, if you look at the doctors in China, they are scrambling to study abroad, even if they exchange a semester, they will try their best to win it. In colleges and universities, the problem of educational development is the easiest to understand. When people watch news reports, they feel that some people even do misleading propaganda to cater to some people for the sake of traffic. They think that foreign education is not good, and China has made progress, even surpassing foreign countries, which is incorrect. This incorrect understanding will not only make individuals miss the right opportunity to develop themselves, but also cast a veil over the development of the whole society.

Personally, there are mainly the following aspects.

First, blindly follow the trend. Children are the continuation of parents' lives. Everything is for their children. Children should not lose at the starting line. Parents see that other families have sent their children abroad to study, and they are saving money to sell iron to send their children overseas. In their eyes, all the efforts are worthwhile.

The second parent thinks that the moon in foreign countries is always rounder than that in China. Undeniably, foreign educational resources and systems are indeed better than domestic ones. Foreign countries pay more attention to ability education, while China still evaluates everything by points. But in fact, is the graduation ability of foreign children really better than that of domestic children? Nowadays, a large number of returnees come back every year, but they can't find suitable jobs after spending hundreds of thousands and millions. They can't find any bright spots abroad, so they are also struggling abroad.

Third, our country is actually not bad. With the development of our country, we have become increasingly powerful, and all walks of life in China need a large number of outstanding talents. You say that education in China is not good, but now more and more foreigners come to China to study and settle down, and a large number of international students come to China for further study every year. With the improvement of national strength, our university ranking is gradually at the top.

Fourth, some people do have money, so they have no pressure to send their children abroad. In their eyes, even if the children are muddling along to return to China, they are at least returned students with a sense of superiority.

In a word, gold always shines. Where children go to school, as long as they study hard according to their own conditions, they can get good grades. The external environment has an impact, but it is not the most important. Mainly depends on the children themselves and their hometown.