After all, different children have different habits, so it is certainly impossible for all children to be obedient or naughty. So if you are a parent, do you want your children to be obedient or naughty?
I believe that different parents have different answers to this answer. Some people like children to be obedient, so they don't have to worry so much. Children have to worry about themselves. Some people want their children to be naughty, because naughty shows that their children are full of energy and vitality. Besides, these parents will think that it is normal for children not to be naughty. How boring it is to be quiet all day long! Therefore, some parents still want their children to be naughty and let them interact with themselves more.
These three age groups are the "golden moments" for educating children. Parents will be careful and their children will become excellent.
However, contrary to expectations, parents who want their children to be obedient and their children to be naughty are more sensible. This is suitable for parents who want their children to be sensible and have more development.
So how should we educate sensible children?
Ah, what a difficult question this is. It is true that many parents want to break their heads and can't figure out a solution to this problem. But it doesn't matter, there will always be a way!
Li Meijin, a famous teacher, once shared her parenting experience. Teacher Li Meijin thinks that we must pay attention to these three time periods when raising children, because these three time periods are very important and play an important role in children's growth.
Before the age of one or three
Children before the age of three know nothing, that is to say, children at this time are still ignorant of the world.
For them, parents are the most familiar, others are unfamiliar. At this time, the child's main task is to get to know the world slowly, get familiar with the world and understand the world. Then parents are of great significance at this time, because children can't explore the world by themselves, because they don't have the ability.
Therefore, at this time, parents must accompany him and accompany her to know the world and get in touch with it. The most important task at this time is to establish the affection between children and parents. The key period is before the age of three. Before the age of three, the emotional relationship between children and their parents largely determines the relationship between children and their parents in the future. Moreover, if parents can give their children more companionship before they are three years old, children can become more affectionate, considerate and loving people.
At the age of two or six
At this time, children basically have a basic understanding of the world. He has begun to get in touch with the world. At this time, the most important task of parents is to teach their children the rules about the world. Let children live better in this world. At this time, parents will ask, how can we do our best? Then the answer is to lead by example. If parents want their children to be what kind of people, then first of all, what kind of people parents should be. If you want your child to respect others and yourself in the future. Then what you should do as a parent is to learn to respect the children's ideas.
Don't try to force children. If you don't respect your child yourself, how can you make your child a person who respects yourself and others? If you want your children to have control, don't always play with mobile phones. Then as parents, you shouldn't always play with your mobile phone in front of your children, and sometimes you can't take care of your children because of your mobile phone. Look at the news, how many parents hurt or even lost their children's lives because of playing mobile phones. So at the age of six, parents must establish corresponding rules for their children, not only to let them know the world, but also to let them adapt to it.
At the age of three or twelve
At this time, parents should cultivate children's values. It is children who form correct values, outlook on life and world view. Correct values can make children better reflect on themselves and correct their mistakes in time. And because people with correct values are more attractive. They often make more good friends. People with correct values are more reliable in doing things and happier in life. Therefore, we should cultivate children's correct values when they are 12 years old.
Therefore, if parents want to cultivate a sensible child, they must remember these three critical periods and remember to spend more time with their children when they are three years old and build feelings. At the age of six, children should be taught the rules of the world. When children 12 years old, they should be taught to cultivate correct values.