The core of emotional stability is to be able to manage your emotions, be responsible for your emotions, and give yourself a sense of security.
A sense of security is one's own needs, which need to be satisfied by oneself, not pinned on one's partner.
No matter you are a boy or a girl, you can't completely pin your emotions on your partner, just like a vine that can't be independent, it will only climb and grow, but you should try your best to be an independent and sunny tree, standing side by side with your partner and evenly matched. Second, there is a clear self-awareness.
In the ultimate life, we always ask two questions:
"Who am I?"
"What do I want?"
Therefore, people who know what they want can find a way of life that conforms to their nature and live a happy life. Third, dare to pay and dare to refuse.
People have their own persistence and boundaries, and there are principles and bottom lines for doing things.
Have your own opinions, dare to refuse when being violated, never ask for too much in the relationship, and never pay too much.
When encountering contradictions, you can talk it over, don't intensify contradictions, and communicate effectively.