For the first time, Xiao Ming got 60 points. Because his score was too low, his mother rewarded him with a "women's singles".

The second time, Xiaoming scored 85 points, and his mother rewarded him with a "women's combination boxing". Why did you hit him? The reason is: with your usual grades, how can you get 85 points? You must have cheated.

The third time, Xiao Ming was beaten again. This Xiaoming exam is 100! There is no reason to be defeated. His mother said: nothing, just used to playing!

Many of our parents either spoil their children and have a Xiong Haizi. Or, like Xiao Ming's mother, there is no end to beating children, and children don't know what to do to satisfy their parents.

How to grasp the scale of children's education?

When we were at school, the school had school rules. There are company rules and regulations in the workplace. Then the same is true for educating children, and we must also act according to the "chapter"!

First, prevent criticism that is greater than the present.

There are traces of children's age and problems. For example, this course is a math class. Before this math class, students will preview in advance so that they can keep up with the teacher's progress when giving lectures.

Similarly, parents should learn how to educate their children in advance before their children have problems. Tell your child the truth, so that when problems arise, your child can predict how to deal with them. Even if the child can't handle it well, parents don't have to worry about criticism at that time. Just give the child time to think and give him guidance.

Second, the hug after criticism

Children are smart and sensitive, even if they know they are wrong, they will feel wronged. After criticism, you must give your child a hug and tell them that it is right to be criticized for being wrong, but criticism does not mean that parents don't love you.

Third, the educational thoughts of the two generations should be unified.

Parents' education should be consistent with grandparents' generation, and they should not be strict and spoiled at the same time. There should be rewards and punishments for children.

The problem of educating children is a long-term and arduous task, which requires parents to learn while doing and use while learning. This is the common growth process of parents and children.