Educational methods are effective only if they conform to the educational objects, and effective educational methods can ensure the educational effect. Therefore, the father should seek the education method that the child likes when he knows the education method that the child doesn't like.

The key to solving the contradiction between father and daughter is to know what the focus of the contradiction is.

Suggestion:

1) The father listens to the child as patiently as possible and understands what the child really means. He can say, "Is that what you mean?" To verify the true meaning of the child.

2) Explain your point of view when you understand. It's best to consider the age of children when expressing your own opinions, because different ages have different thinking characteristics, and you can't just tell your children your own opinions.

3) To get along well with children, we must first understand their hobbies and learn to communicate with them like friends, and the premise of communication is mutual understanding.

4) Love should be priceless. Don't turn love into an exchange.

5) Many girls reject their fathers because they can't communicate or express their true feelings. It's actually quite simple. You just need to tell the truth, don't be tough. In fact, sometimes you just have to smile and gently touch the child's head.

6) If you really don't know where you are wrong, you can ask your child how. You can find an opportunity to invite your children on a separate date and gently tell them that dad wants to communicate with you in a friendly way, but he just doesn't know how. Can you tell me? Then, wait patiently for the child to tell you. The key is, after the child tells you, can you really execute it?

If you just want to reason with your child, I'm afraid not.