This is a famous saying about trust in great experiences. There is also a very important trust relationship between teachers and children. Children's trust in teachers is the key for children to adapt to kindergarten life, and it is also the key for children to rely on teachers. So what should teachers do to gain children's trust?
First of all, match words with deeds.
Children who have just entered the park will have separation anxiety and social phobia more or less. Every child behaves differently, and some children cry for days. At this time, teachers need great patience to appease children, talk with them, try to integrate them into the group and make friends with other children.
At this time, the most taboo is the teacher's deception to the children, such as: "Mom and Dad will pick you up soon." "If you don't cry, I'll call your parents to pick you up." The children will believe it.
There is a younger child in our class named Xiaoke. Xiaoke cries for her mother every day. Teacher Lin, the main class, said to her, "Xiaoke, don't cry, or I'll find your mother." Xiao Kexin believed it, wiped his tears and said, "Good."
After five or six minutes, Xiao Ke chased Teacher Lin and asked, "Why hasn't Mom come yet?"
Teacher Lin lied to her and said, "I just called my mother." My mother is on her way. Stop crying! " "
Xiaoke cleverly replied: "OK, I won't cry."
In this way, one morning, Xiaoke asked Mr. Lin several times and was fooled by the same answer. After lunch, before taking a nap, Xiaoke burst into tears before seeing her mother pick her up.
In the evening, Xiao Ke went home and asked his mother, "The teacher said I didn't cry, so she called her mother. Why didn't my mother pick me up? "
Xiaoke's mother thought that teacher Lin cheated Xiao Xiao in order not to let Xiaoke cry, so she complained to the director. Teacher Lin has not been recognized by Xiaoke's mother for a long time because of his different words and deeds.
Second, be honest with everyone.
Honesty is the basis of building trust between people. But teacher Lin often cheats parents and children. It's good news for parents, not bad news. Unless the child has obvious wounds and can't hide them, he will tell some truth to his parents. As a result, many parents are extremely dissatisfied with all the teachers in the class and even have doubts about kindergartens.
Third, the accuracy of doing things
The accuracy of doing things in kindergarten education, to be exact, should be to accurately judge children's emotions and behaviors and understand the meaning behind their emotions and behaviors. Through observation and judgment, teachers should take targeted measures to appease young children.
In short, the work of kindergartens is mainly aimed at the service and education of young children. Many teachers say that parents' work is difficult. In fact, as long as kindergarten teachers do their children's work well and build trust with parents, parents' work will be done 80%.
Therefore, trust is the top priority of all work!