1, usually communicate with children.

Understand the needs of children and pay attention to the interaction between children. Parents can learn more about what other children are playing, thinking, having any requirements and so on. When children put forward their own requirements, parents can better understand their children's feelings, and then enlighten and patiently explain, which can eliminate or alleviate their anger.

2. Encourage children more.

Parents should first calm down and tell him that losing his temper is a bad behavior, but it is inevitable as long as he learns to control it. Let the children not blame themselves too much. After the child's mood is stable, parents can start to enlighten him orally, encourage him to realize his mistakes and promise to correct them next time.

3. Help children learn self-control.

Let children always remember that when they feel that they are going to lose their temper, they can say "Don't be angry" repeatedly, or they can leave the scene quickly to divert their attention from other things, or they can simply talk to other people and try not to confront each other when their anger is strong. After this "gas head" and returning to the scene, the external conditions for losing your temper no longer exist, and reason has the upper hand.

4. Guide children to learn empathy.

When exchanging opinions, both sides can think from each other's standpoint, and then they will understand each other's motives and purposes in comparison, and they will realize whether their opinions are correct and whether the other side can accept them, thus avoiding losing their temper.

5. divert your attention.

The younger the child, the more unstable the mood, and the easier it is to divert attention. When they are unhappy, they should use the activity transfer method to let them vent their inner tension in a happy atmosphere. Use love to influence, to be patient, and never to reprimand and accuse, let alone get angry and beat and scold. This can not only calm the children's emotions, but also divert their attention.

Parents' consistently wrong educational methods

1, hit, scold and punish.

Beating, scolding and punishment are common ways for parents to educate their children. Although it takes effect for a while, it is easy to rebound, which makes children have serious rebellious psychology.

Let it go.

Children are too grumpy, and some parents think that children are just young and ignorant, and will naturally get better when they grow up; Or some parents think that their children are too grumpy and don't want to take care of them. It can be seen that these will make the child's temper grow day by day, forming a vicious circle.

3. cajole and admit defeat.

Okay, okay, if you stop crying, I promise you to wait. Parents will cajole their children into surrendering. In the long run, children will think that as long as they lose their temper, their parents will satisfy themselves.